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26 August 2011, 01:59 AM   #1
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8 September 2011, 03:44 PM   #2
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Umm... well theres this guy on my bus, i kinda really like him. He has a girlfriend but i
think he likes me, he trys talking to me and flirting but sometimes i dont notice hes
there. What should i do!? im afraid to walk up to him. We dotn really talk much all we do
is fight 

9 September 2011, 06:50 AM   #3
Joined: 5 Sep 2011
Posts: 9
Thanks for telling us your problem ^^
Hmm...I think that you should try to talk to him more.
Maybe it's because both of you don't understand each other that's why there's a fight.
You might be scared at first when walking up to him, but I think that moment of fear is
nothing compared to the regret you'll feel later on.
Try being friends with him first.
And about him having a girlfriend... well if he flirts with you, it tells me 3 things:
1) He is not serious about his current girlfriend.
2) He's those type who wants to become friends with anyone and make them happy.
3) He is interested in you (might not mean that he like you)
Could be all of the above, two or one of them.
But ignore the fact that he has a girlfriend first. 
It doesn't mean you have a girlfriend/boyfriend means you can't have other friends right?
Be friends with him and see how things goes. =D

9 September 2011, 03:26 PM   #4
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i had a fight with him today and he really got on my nerves so i deleted him on fb. I
feel great that i did but i still liek him very much. When i got home i was in tears and
his friends were being really rude butt holes  i told him not to talk to me again. i
feel bad though

10 September 2011, 11:43 AM   #5
Joined: 5 Sep 2011
Posts: 9
Ignore his friends, don't waste your thoughts and worries on them, it's not worth it.
Maybe you should tell him that you felt bad and apologize.
IF he still tries to pick a fight with you, then I would be sorry to say that it's better
not to be so involved with him anymore =/
Though don't completely ignore him, just usual peer relationship.
No point hurting yourself so much for just a guy (That's what I think)
I believe there are better ones out there, MUCH better ones =D

11 September 2011, 01:33 PM   #6
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thank you  so much! 

11 September 2011, 01:50 PM   #7
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How does a boy/girl know when they're gay,straight,lesbian or bi?

12 September 2011, 02:09 AM   #8
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@7 hmmm.... the only way I can think of is:
If you fall in love with the same gender than i guess ur gay/lesbian, if you fall in love
with a different gender than i guess ur straight

12 September 2011, 02:10 AM    #9
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