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12 November 2007, 12:25 AM   #1
Jamie BO Bamie.
Joined: 11 Nov 2007
Posts: 36
I need some Advice here.
And please.
Talk this seriously.
So there is this guy.
His name is Nikolic <33
And like..
He asked me out.
And I said yes.
And we went out a few times.
And like..
We are having so much fun together.
And today..
He asked me, "Will you be my Girlfriend?"
And I said, "Let me think about that..."
I dont know.
What should I do?
What should I say?
I mean.
I want to be his Girlfriend.
But I am not allowed dating.
it would involve alot of sneaking.
My dad would let me date, though.
It's just my mom.
But my mom told me a secret..
And she told me not to tell anyone.
And it wasnt really a secret.
And I have been getting away with anything.
So I dont know.
What to do?
I mean.
I could say "no" to Nikolic.
Or I could say "yes" but keep it a secret.
Or I could just tell my mom that I have a boyfriend.
if I told my mom..
Then life would be easier.
And if she said no..
I could just tell the secret to my dad.

12 November 2007, 12:28 AM   #2
Joined: 11 Nov 2007
Posts: 17
I think, if you really like him, and he really likes you, and you know each other verry


12 November 2007, 12:29 AM   #3
Jamie BO Bamie.
Joined: 11 Nov 2007
Posts: 36
Thanks for the advice.
But should I tell my mom, then?
Or just sneak around with him?
Either way...
I am telling my dad.
Beause I trust him..
And he doesnt even care if I date.

12 November 2007, 12:37 AM   #4
Joined: 12 Nov 2007
Posts: 6
tell your mom, because if you dont and she finds out youre sneaking around on her, she
will NEVER trust you again, and you will be on lockdown for a WHILE. trust me. theres
always the cry/pout/beg method if she says no. so tell her!!!!
its never a good thing to sneak around on your mom. lol 
I heart this quote:
"I always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh,
But I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry"

12 November 2007, 12:47 AM   #5
Jamie BO Bamie.
Joined: 11 Nov 2007
Posts: 36
Tell my mom? 
That I'm dating?
I just see what other people say first.

12 November 2007, 12:57 AM   #6
Joined: 12 Nov 2007
Posts: 6
well im just saying. if your gonna do something, its best to tell than to live a lie.
which can make you get in a lot of trouble. 
but hey, its your life. im just tryin to help lol
i hope i did! 
I heart this quote:
"I always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh,
But I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry"

12 November 2007, 01:54 AM   #7
Guest Poster
You should tell your dad you want to date the boy, then see if he can pressure your mom
That might work

12 November 2007, 06:51 PM   #8
Katteh PWNS... Booyeah dude!
Joined: 11 Nov 2007
Posts: 11
WOOO ADVICE TIME, Katteh can do this!

Tell your dad about it and ask if he thinks your mom will be okay with it, then make sure
you see this fella (xD) and explain that you are asking ya parents cause he might get fed
up or something.
Then talk to your mom and explain that it's not really really serious and nothing bad is
gonna happen
After that if she says yes, tell this guy that you can go out together and when where ETC
Make sure if he's picking you up or something he comes a little early, cause your mum and
dad are bound to turn into police interviewers...

Hows that?

Wait a mo... He's the one you went to see the bee movie with!
Katteh ish here...

Oh yeah, You want some of this,
Do ya, Do ya?

12 November 2007, 09:38 PM   #9
Guest Poster
you should take him

12 November 2007, 10:28 PM   #10
Guest Poster
Last edited by ‹{{♥Gelikerz♥}}›, 13 November 2007
you should say yes to him....and tell your mom, because if you don't, your going to feel all this pressure like if she is gonna catch you during the date or something... and no one likes feeling pressure and during the WHOLE date you'll be thinking about your not kool! so you my as well ask her 1st and if she says no....tell her something like "Mom, I'm growing up, eventually this day will come, and its better that I like guys more than girls...right?" then tell "your future bf" ur mom's responce.....which will probably be a yes...*shrugs* hopefully my advice helped a lil :D

12 November 2007, 10:40 PM   #11
Sushi Ninja.
Joined: 11 Nov 2007
Posts: 14
Personally, I would say, 'Maybe.' to that young sir of yours. :D
Then I would ask your mom, after doing quite a bit of chores around the house.
That always seems to get my mom, and I rack up the brownie points!

Annd...If she says no..Hey, boys come and go.
Your mother will be around a lot longer than you want her to. :D
Star ♥'s Mulan/300/Peace/Broadway :D

13 November 2007, 02:56 AM    #12
Guest Poster
i think you should tell your if she says no just do it anyway.but if she says yes
well your all good.......................and ask your dad to help like convence her it
would be alright .....................ok

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