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14 March 2007, 04:37 PM   #1
lonely and sad as love passes me by
Joined: 13 Mar 2007
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Last edited by lonely, 14 March 2007
you can put your problems or something ur facing in ur life right now that u think u may
need help with

17 March 2007, 01:46 PM   #2
lonely and sad as love passes me by
Joined: 13 Mar 2007
Posts: 112
i need advice  theres a boy im really interested in but every one thinks he likes me but
he never acts like it should i talk to him or leave him alone please help me?

19 March 2007, 07:33 PM   #3
Joined: 19 Mar 2007
Posts: 12
i think u shuld talk 2 him. if u wanna kno the truth, get it from the source.
~~cool-co is here 2 staY~~

20 March 2007, 06:55 PM   #4
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Im currently going through depression, and anorexia.
I don't want anyones advice on this, but I thought i'd share it all with you.

At the age of 8 I was bullied by four boys.
Each who would punch me, kick me, use verbal abuse against me, and do anything in their
power to make me feel terrible about myself.
As I grew older, I began to see myself differently than I used to.
People would make comments, say that I don't fit in because I have different colour hair,
or maybe I was a bit bigger than them.. I don't really know.
Basically, those four boys have ruined the last few years of my life.

When I look in the mirror, I don't see the person I want to see.
What I see is someone who is ugly, fat, useless, pathetic, and a complete waste of human
I don't like feeling that way, but because of those boys, I do.

I would do anything to be happier about my appearance.
I would do anything to be a different person..
& I would do anything to prove to those four boys that I am proud to be who I am.

But that's just it, I'm not proud to be who I am now.
I'm not happy feeling this way about myself.

I hate walking past people and feeling like they're staring at me, and laughing.. thinking
"ha! look at her.. she's hideous!" I feel intimidated when I walk past people I don't
know, on my own. 

I feel almost disliked by every stranger I who happens to walk by.

But one day, i'll prove everyone wrong.. and really show them that im happy to be who I
am, and that I am attractive.. and that I do have a purpose.

One day, i'll show them all.

But for now, I can't help but starve myself.

Danny says that i'm dangerously underweight now.. 

But I dont think I am.

If anything, i've put weight on!

I used to be 7 stone/80 pounds.

I don't dare weight myself.. in case it's gone up.

I don't mean to be so obsessed about my appearance.

& I'm sorry for anyone who I may be hurting.

But for now, all I can do is hope that I can get the strength to love myself the way I

In the future, I'm planning on being perfect. I'm planning on being me.

21 March 2007, 04:18 PM   #5
lonely and sad as love passes me by
Joined: 13 Mar 2007
Posts: 112
just know that u are pretty i may not see your face but ur beautiful for saying what
happened to you .You have to accept  yourself for everyone to see you that your beautiful
. you are very attractive you cant let others opinions effect you the more you do that you
will never recover from the pain you have went through and the pain your body is going
URSELF ESTEEM AND GIVE YOUR CONFIDENCE A GOOD BOOST. the real thing that really effected
me when i heard this is that when you look in the mirror you see a ugly ,use less waste of
human flesh you are not people who make fun of others are only intimidated  with you or
unhappy in there own skin. 

        just know its ok to different no one is perfect and believe in urself  different
is good different is beautiful and you are bye if you need any other advice come talk i'll
try to answer everyday. And u are perfect when you are healthy and when   YOU  are happy
forget every one else its your life not thers . bye feel better and come talk 2 me again.

23 March 2007, 08:38 PM   #6
Joined: 14 Mar 2007
Posts: 8
you know waht when i first raed your prfile you know aht cae up into my my ghead i thought that is such a nice girl, and anyone who is her
frined desirves it!!! i think those boys must think they aree hidiouse or they are just
blind when there is a pretty girl with them so no matter what you do u will have a few ppl
sayin that u are a pretty  poerson and if you belive it or not it is the thought that

2 December 2007, 12:18 PM   #7
lonely and sad as love passes me by
Joined: 13 Mar 2007
Posts: 112
just believe in yourslef and you will go far

5 December 2007, 03:42 PM   #8
Joined: 5 Apr 2007
Posts: 5
i like this  guy and he likes me but i got soo annoyed at him that i told him i never
want to talk to him ever agin now who i am supossed talk 2 on the bus except for my other

5 December 2007, 03:54 PM   #9
Joined: 5 Apr 2007
Posts: 5
dont hurt ur self like that ur better then that. i know waht ur going through my sis used
to be depressed then she went to a docter and they gsve her medciene but it was more like
a sykorgist sry not good at spelling and im just as self consusion as u r . all u have to
do is believe in ur self fairyknickers

18 February 2008, 03:51 PM   #10
lonely and sad as love passes me by
Joined: 13 Mar 2007
Posts: 112
um...all u have 2 do is believe in urslef and u will be fine

25 July 2009, 06:11 PM    #11
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Ithink that nobody likes me and that nobody ever will so i am realy depressed

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