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#1 |
k lets say that you fell in love with someone on Kupika and you were REALLY REALLY REALLY in love....and you even became "bf/gf"... so my compound question for you peeps is: If you broke up with this person, 1) would you feel like you needed to leave Kupika or would you? 2) do you think both persons should go or only one and if so which one? the one who joined kupika last? or should something like if one person cheated or something like that decide? 3) or do you think that its completely easy to just co-exist on Kupika like nothing happened? (im sure a lot of individual factors involved there) ok discuss.... i have some thoughts about it but i will keep them to myself for now.. |
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#2 |
1) i wouldn't feel the need to leave kupika, and i wouldn't. to explain, i'm going to use another hypothetical situation: say you're in high school. you break up with someone that you really loved. do you transfer to another school? most likely not. 2) i don't think either person should leave.. 3) yeah, i think i explained that in the above answer. so that's my opinion. hope it helped. i tried. :] |
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#3 |
Last edited by Oroborus21, 1 June 2007
i get your point but the high school situation is very different because of all the barriers to leaving you are forced to continue going there. you can't just transfer easily. usually theres a lot of "cost" involved even if there is another school to transfer to which isn't always the case especially in small towns or if private school alternatives are not affordable for the person.. and also in real life its sort of expected that as teens you are going to make bf/gfs and have break-ups..its practicallly required extra-curricular activity |
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#4 |
In a sense, I may feel like leaving for a while. However, I personally believe the two would be perfectly capable of remaining on the site, given a certain set of factors were....obtained, for lack of a better word. For example, if the break up hadn't caused rifts and the pair remained on terms with one another (the matter of how close they were post break up isn't that relevant) they should still be able to both remain on the site as neither would theoretically be going out of their way to harm the other, which would be reason enough for one to leave. Another point would be the group of friends they moved in. If they both had their own friends, then it may still work to remain on site as they shouldn't 'cross paths' that often, nor hear any upsetting news about the other (be it rumours or truthful tales). This would mean the potential harm the once couple could face would be minimal, another good example for a reason for both to remain on site. However, if the pair had the same or similar set of friends, it could be veeeery bad, especially if one of the former couple had reason to seek revenge against the other. It isn't nice when your friends turn on you just because someone else says so... From my point of view, if it happened to me, I'd remain on the site and not expect the other to leave; that's their decision. The thing is, if they had cheated on me........... I doubt I'd leave even then. I'd ensure I left their circle, make a 'clean break' as it were, and start moving amongst my own group of friends again. That could mean losing several friends but I guess I'd justify the losses as 'damage control', but I'd probably still keep one or two that I feel wouldn't be manipulated by the other into trying to upset me. Eh, I hope that helps in some sense. |
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#5 |
very thoughtful and insightful comments LunaSakura i appreciate them |
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#6 |
Well I feel that if the girl cheated she shoiuld not leave kupika and so forth for the boy but I think they do need their space . You can co-exist with that person on kupika no 1 should leave and there will still be feeling there but its over move on |
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#7 |
mo, dont leave..you could find someone else on kupika that u may fall in love with or somthing... |
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#8 |
orborus21 i dont get this you went out with kelsey and you were young and plus teens arent ready because 16 year old girls end up having babys like brezzy =/ |
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#9 |
huh? i never went out with Kelsey....maybe in her imagination.. i was only and always jsut a freind to her.. and what are u talking about this is a hypo queston it doesnt' have anything nto do with me. and finally what he heck are u bringin gup brezzy for? her situation is totally her own deal and her guy was someone her own age or whatever..why would u compare what i do to a situation that is totally different....although yes i agree with you that most teens should not be having sex.. but i dont' know what you are talking about there as far as me....im not having any sex with anyone at the moment ... |
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#10 |
Someone Deleted My Post Thats Ignorant |
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#11 |
i think 30 is best cos there is no point leaving, as u hav friends etc., and u dont need to speak to him/her and u still might remain friends. also if one of them cheated it is up 2 them to make the decision and it is very easy to co-exist. if u r really depressed or annoyed, u probs should leave to avoid more upset or conflict. okay, that sounds weird... |
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