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23 February 2008, 08:12 PM   #1
Joined: 15 Feb 2008
Posts: 9
i am getting worried that my gf is starting to not like me....and that she is falling in
love with one of her ex's again....i need help!!

she says i need to stop obsessing, but i think i have OCD, and this is my first
relationship and i am paranoid! i dont want to lose her...i dont know what i would do
without her....

she says that i dont have the willpower to get over my obsessions, and she is right!! i
dont know what to do

she says i need to stop feeling bad about stuff but i dont like hurting people and if i do
i feel bad for hurting them

I NEED HELP!!! I DONT WANT TO LOSE HER!!! please help!!!!

24 February 2008, 02:25 PM   #2
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Last edited by depressed_anime_girl, 24 February 2008
ask her whats wrongs.........if she is falling in love with he ex's again then tell her u
guys are breaking up. thats what i would do. then find someone else thats worth ur time

25 February 2008, 01:47 AM   #3
Joined: 15 Feb 2008
Posts: 9
well now the problem is mostly resolved, she agreed to help me get over my problem, as
long as i agree to try

25 February 2008, 02:45 PM   #4
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thats pretty good

1 March 2008, 09:40 PM   #5
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Ask her why she's doing this. Does she want some time alone or is it something else
troubling her? Listen and care. And also, remember to love her every day cause you never
know when she might be gone. But don't get too clingy. Let her have her space too. ^^;

1 March 2008, 09:43 PM   #6
Joined: 15 Feb 2008
Posts: 9
thanks guys, we are fine now, thanks for all your help

1 March 2008, 09:52 PM   #7
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Your welcome. ^-^

5 March 2008, 02:22 AM    #8
Joined: 1 Mar 2008
Posts: 7
Last edited by ‹SmileDarling›, 5 March 2008
can some one help me....? 
i've been going out with my gf gabby for 5 months
and everything has been going good
but i just found out that she asked our friend ashley out like a day before me and she had
said no
i didnt know that
i knew that she like both of us but i thought she had just told ashley and ashley was kind
of like ....ok but im straight
so she just asked me
but apparently thats not what happened
gabby had told me that when we first started going out ashley was mad because gabby didnt
wait for her or somehting 
that wasnt it
she was mad [well not really mad but w/e] because gabby asked her out then just
immediatley asked me the next day like it was nothing 
and ashley thought that was gay
so i just found this out and now im thinking was i just like the rebound? like what the
hell is that? was i just the second choice?
and i dont know whether to just forget about it or do something about it
because im still trying to figure out if this is a big deal to me or not
she says she loves me and i believe her and she always saying these cute little things and
she wrote me a poem [i'll post it in the love letters part]
so im thinking do i want to chance throwng this away by asking about it and maybe causing
a fight?
or did she just ask ashley because she didnt want to ask me first cause we were best
friends and if we broke up it would be weird
but since ashley said no she decided to take a chance?
we've been through alot together so i dont know if this should matter or not
pleeeaaaseee give me advice
i could really use it
thanx =]

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