Thursday, 18 August 2011
09:26:35 PM (GMT)
current kupika trend seems to be complaining about people who complain a lot in their
i personally don't really care either way.
i use my kupika diary as a way of venting. nobody on here knows me in real life. i've
been using this website for about four years - i've met some really genuinely lovely
people on here. despite all of the trolls and the various other stereotypes and
subsections, kupika is a comfort place for me. kupika is a place filled with happy
memories. my diary is my diary.
hi, i'm nat. i'm a recovering cutter, bi-polar, obsessive compulsive, a victim of
sexual abuse, i've attempted suicide, i've been in a psychiatric facility, i've
these things do not define me as a person. these are not things i go out of the
way to talk about. i lock comments on my diary a lot - when i write them generally
it's to get things off my chest, not listen to people throwing aspersions on my
sincerity. not to have people come along and destroy my self-esteem by hitting too
close to home or just triggering my in general. sometimes people want to vent. it is
their account and their diary, and you are perfectly free to comment - but it
probably won't change anything.
in the interests of fairness,:
i'm nat. i'm a member of the queer community and a member of the trans* community.
i'm a musical theatre dork. i'm an urban explorer, a vegan, a pagan, a pacifist, a
poet, a performer, a musician, a reader, a member of many fandoms. a shipper. a
roleplayer. a wildean. a neo-victorian.
if you want to actually talk to me, i would far rather converse about those subjects.
i don't like dragging strangers into conversations about my problems.
you don't let mental illnesses control you. you don't let cutting control you.
there is more to you than that.
Last edited: 1 December 2011