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FriendsCategory: (general)
Sunday, 31 October 2010
06:24:01 PM (GMT)
Have you ever had a "friend" who changed so much that you don't recognize them as
your "friend" anymore?

I can't believe how selfish people can be. One of my best friends was in the
hospital {about a month ago} undergoing an operation that would either kill him or
make his life better. He went through with the surgery and was in the hospital for
about a week before he could return home. When he did get home, we were told that he
couldn't have guests or visitors because he was recovering and was resting. Halloween
was coming up and we were supposed to go to another friend's house for a Halloween
party. My husband had been asking our friend {the one who was in the hospital} when
he could have visitors and we asked his girlfriend {my best friend and maid of honor}
if she could let us know when he would be available for visitors. Well we've been
worried SICK about him because we didn't know if he'd make it and no one had
told us how he was doing or told us if we could see him. I mean, I had plans to make
him some cupcakes for when I could visit him.

The day before Halloween was the party. Well, my husband and I decided not to go
because we didn't have gas in the car, we had no costumes, and it was going to rain
so the party would be inside {and the house was small}. So we hung around the house,
playing games, and watched a movie. This morning, my husband and I get on facebook
and what do we find out??

Our friend who had the operation WENT TO THE PARTY AND DIDN'T TELL US!!

Yesterday, before the party, I saw him online and tried talking to him. He IGNORED
ME! My best friend posted it as her status, that he had such an amazing costume
and had such a great time at the party.


Why the hell didn't he tell us that he could go to the damn party?! Why didn't either
one of them tell us that he could have visitors?? Why didn't they tell us how he was
doing and if we could see him or not?? I mean, aren't we their friends?? Don't we
deserve to know how he is doing?? I mean, WE WERE WORRIED ABOUT HIM!! I think its'
common courtesy to let your friends know about that kind of thing. For all we knew
he could have died!

BUT NO!!! They had to go to the damn party without telling us a single word!
And to make it worse, she PROMISED to tell us when we could see him, she
PROMISED to keep us updated. SHE LIED!!

This is just me...venting. I am upset. I am hurt. I feel
betrayed. I feel like shit.

Last edited: 31 October 2010

‹Monkey boy› says:   31 October 2010   799852  
Awwww -hugs-
Lithalia says :   1 November 2010   892231  
 ty -hugs-


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