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041109 question of the day .answer(:Category: KUPIKA
Wednesday, 4 November 2009
10:29:07 PM (GMT)
i like writing diaries in case you couldn't tell (: so fer my random entry of the day , i've got an opinion question for all you kupikans out there . if you were / are / some day will be in a relationship , what would count as you cheating on your lovely other ? & part two . what would count as them cheating ? so ya . you should reply . & i'll make more . cause these are exciting :B be excited .

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Gabbbyrella says:   4 November 2009   467314  
Amanda, I'll respond . & I'll say I never really thought you were a
relationship kinda girl you have too much love fer everyone , you like
to share it with everyone not just one person ..

Why are you thinking about cheating ?

I've already been cheated on XD , it's kinda exciting . not gonna lie
, tragic, but it turns out to be a good story to tell :3 ...
 
Gabbbyrella says:   4 November 2009   946044  
That wasn't meant to be offensive DD:
 
zsazsa1221 says:   4 November 2009   438249  
flirting with other people
and flirting with other people
 
Oroborus21 says:   5 November 2009   344398  
i think it would hve to go beyond flirting to count as cheating and
involve some more interaction...

the real interesting quesiton is whether to consider online
communication (cybering with another person), telephone communiction
(phone sex with another) as cheating or not?

i think for men, we tend to consider any kind of physical activity as
cheating but care less about the "emotional" satisfaction.connection
our girl (or guy) might have with another...

whereas it seems that many women can tolerate a man's sexual
indiscretions or cheating so long as there isnt an emotional
connection or it doesnt take away from or threaten her continued
receipt of tangible material goods from him..

let me illustrate this last point further so you get what im
saying...

because what is at the heart of a woman's interest in a guy is the
tangible material goods that she receives from him (we can argue that
point later but its true)..if the guy is wealthy enough to care for
her and her offspring without significant diminishment if she should
take on a second or more wife/lover/gf then she will not feel very
threatened.

which is why whether it is a tribal chief who gets to have many wives
or a Hugh Hefner who gets to have many gfs...

or why very often in wealthy classes the wives tolerate a man's
infidelity much more often than in the poorer classes...

it all comes down to that....whether or not his cheating would
threaten her own security or the security of her children..

......
 
Gabbbyrella says:   5 November 2009   787967  
shes not gonna read all that XD
 
Manderlinaa says :   5 November 2009   768407  
haha oh gabby i never take yer posts offensively (: & no i am not thinking of cheating lmao this was an actual random question . & aw tragedy befalls ze gabbykins . ( tell me when that nickname gets annoying(: ) & oh really , das an interesting point i suppose .
 

 
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