Wednesday, 28 March 2012
03:29:59 PM (GMT)
I dont personally believe people fall out of love. Love last forever. I think you
just learn to let go. But a relationship should never be the end of a friendship. You
were friends for a reason and that reason is what lead you dating in the first place.
So what if they hurt you? Everyone hurts everyone. We're humans. We arent perfect.
Friends hurt each other. But the important part, is forgiving them and supporting
them. Being there when they need you... Cuz isnt that why you started dating in the
first place? Cuz y'all were such good friends?
You start with a friendship and then from that friendship you form a relationship.
But so many times when you are in a relationship, you get so focused on being a
couple that somehow lose your friendship. Which is whymany people can't remain
friends after dating. In a friendship, you argue but you dont hold it against them in
the end. Why? Cuz they're your friends and you forgive them. Relationships wouldnt
form if there wasn't a friendship there to ignite from. So why hold that grudge? Why
hang on and keep bringing up that arguement? Cuz their your gf/bf? Well they are also
your friend, remember? Forgive your friend. Love isnt about who hurts who or who does
more for the other. Love isnt about being perfect. Nobody is perfect. Perfection
doesnt exist. Love is seeing past all the imperfections and loving that person