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Friday, 2 March 2012
03:38:48 AM (GMT)
It's kind of stupid. lol 

I can't hold a conversation with someone to save my life. 

Like, i'll be messaging someone on here, just saying hi and how are you or whatever.
And then i'll get nervous and not know what to say to them because I don't want to
offend anyone.  

Or, like, I'll sart talking to a random person  for a couple of seconds and then it
gets really awkward because niether of us is saying anything. And then the person
will either leave, or we'll stare at each other awkwardly until something else
happens.. 

I can even be talking to my friends, who I've known since who knows how long, and the
conversations will drop because I don't know what to say. I don't want to repeat
something I might have already brought up because I don't want to bore them, but I
can't think of anything else to talk about. 

And it's not even limited to the guys I like! It's almost everybody I know! I even
get nervous around my best friends, my own sister! And my dad usually! 

I don't know if I'm just an all around shy person, or if I'm overly nervous, worrying
about comepletely nonthing, or what.

I don't want to ask some of the questions I'm truly curious about, because I'm afraid
that someone will find it creepy. I don't wanna creep someone out. At least not on
purpose. lol 

The point I'm trying to make I guess is that I'm worrying about something that for
some reason I just can't seem to get control of. But I want to make friends..

Anybody got any advice? It's all welcome, even if your only dis-ing me and telling me
to toughen up. -sighz-

Comments 
SithWedgie says :   2 March 2012   985324  
Huh.  Everyone has some quirks.  I know a gal who has the
near-inability to recognize people's faces.  Even her brother's
sometimes.

For that one little portion about asking possibly creepy questions, if
you tell the person basically what you say here then they will
probably be understanding.  

"Hey, um, I've got a kinda weird question.  Would it be okay if I ask?
 It has to do with ___" 

Something like that? ^ ^

Sometimes its questions like these that can keep a conversation going.
 But its really okay for conversations to end, its natural.  If
something comes up like you have news or a little time has gone by,
then just say hello and start a new one.
 

 
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