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Wednesday, 10 November 2010
09:06:05 PM (GMT)
I usually don't do this kinds of things. I don't ask for help. Never. I guess I'm
only doing it this way, because...well I've pushed it far away too many times. I need
your help. Just post your comments or advice or anything!

Well, me and my friend, Mercedes, has been friends since seventh grade. We have never
gotten into a fight, until this year.

Between those couple of years, we have become the best of friends.

And now, I can feel a tension between us. 

It happened a while ago, when Mercedes started talking to the one guy I truly hate.

At first, it wasn't bad, but then it created all this drama. I tried to stay out of
it, but then I got dragged into it.

I tried to sort it out, but it didn't work out. I got nothing out of them.

So I pushed it aside.

A couple days later Mercedes bought up a point, and then I started arguing with her.

We didn't sort it out.

Just pushed it out of our minds.

Then today, we were talking about my World Civ. class.

I was going on and on about how stupid the teacher was and how I was always paired up
with the stupid people.

"Why don't you just tell the teacher?" asked Mercedes.

"Mercedes this isn't middle school anymore!" I snapped back at her.

Okay, so it was kind of mean of me, but...I wasn't in the best mood that day.

Then she tried to hid it the best she could, but she started crying.

She didn't bring it up and I didn't bring it up.

So we both acted like nothing happened.

I have no idea if that was the best choice we could have done. I mean I don't want to
end our friendship, because we have so many good memories. But then again it might be
better for us, because we have different views on stuff, and well...I think we've
grown apart. 

What should I do??

‹RushingStars★› says :   10 November 2010   963571  
OK, look. ALL friends have different points of view. Just because you
don't think the same as each other or don't agree on the same things,
doesn't mean you have to give up a friendship. Besides, any friends
that don't fight probably aren't good friends anyway.

My friends and I argue all the time, but we know how to let it go. And
when we act like nothing happened, it's because nothing really did. We
just got in a heated discussion. Maybe I thing this person is
blablablah and my friend things the person lalala and we talk some
more and it works out. If what you guys are going through is more
serious than I thought (it just didn't seem like a huge thing the way
you worded it) then I'll try to give more help.

Hope this does help tho!


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