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Worthlessness, suicide, emotional posts... It annoys me how...Category: Rant
Friday, 19 June 2009
08:23:41 AM (GMT)
- people here are extremely dramatic

Okay, I'd like to know... why? I am so sick of seeing so much people typing up
diary entries just to get some kind of... sympathy. Well you know what? I deal with
people who have just as much problems as them, if not even more, and not once, did
they make their problems so public. I, myself, have problems as well, but I don't
like to put it up for the world to see. 

I'm not saying that it's wrong for you guys to post up things that are bothering you,
in fact, do whatever you wish to do, it is your own will after all. But just a
note...

For all you people out there that post about your suicidal intentions, your problems,
your feelings of worthlessness...

You're making your problems public. You do have the option to make it protected so
your friends could only see it. While you could grab a lot of sympathy and good
encouragement from people, you can also attract advice that slaps the truth of it
into your face. 

For example (not taking this from anyone's diary or anything, I respect them enough
not to do that.), if you are feeling no worth at all and you want to go and jump off
a cliff, you could hear the words that'll boost up your ego: 

"Don't do it! We love you! D: "  or something along the lines of it. 

What you probably don't want to hear is: 

"Go ahead and jump off a cliff, see if we care." 

And what you probably don't want to hear (making assumptions here.) is: 

"... do you know how stupid and idiotic hearing that is? Do you even know how much
problems and pain you're going to cause to your family? If you're going to be selfish
like that, go ahead and chance it, but I'm sure that you'll regret it a lot later
on... that is if you're still alive..." 

There are some people, and I admit, I am one of those people that will drill you with
questions like that. I don't know about the rest of the folks, but I don't do it
because I'm a harsh bastard that wants to ruin your life, act like I know everything
that's going on, belittle your suffering and just move on to ruin another person's
life. 

In fact, I have absolutely no idea how painful it is at all, since they are so vague.
Pain can't be measured, so I don't bother to even act like I know everything. 

If I wasn't concerned for any lives that can possibly be thrown away, I wouldn't
waste my time looking at diaries at all, or even posting up long sentences and such. 
If someone wants to push you into deep thinking instead of bombarding sympathy and
sap after another, let them help. 

And for the ones that have insulted me because I was there being concerned about you,
I'm just justifying my actions in this post, nothing else. 

I hate the thought of suicide and I've learned through a hard way. It's been drilled
into my head, and I've learned. 


Meh. I'm not asking anyone to believe all that I said is true to my personal
feelings, or whether I am genuine about my concern or not. As long as I got it down,
take it anyway you want to. I'm done with my rant, thanks for reading it. 

- Kyun.

Comments 
lollylovex3 says:   19 June 2009   387196  
Shites, so long, but so right.
 
‹burblegurm› says:   19 June 2009   923719  
Agreed. :l
At times when I am depressed I do write my feelings in a diary entry
and my friends would give me some words of encouragement (: 
But I do dislike diary entries that are just for attention.
 
‹[~ ♥Kanashimi♥ ~]› says:   19 June 2009   826584  
Argh. YEAH. I AGREE FULLY, TOO.
Dx I only tell my problems to Billy, he's the only one, 'cause we made
a promise to be blunt to eachother.
And I think it's so annoying when people do that just for the sympathy
they think they deserve....
 
‹goodfornothing› says:   20 June 2009   343218  
how cud u say tha t mi lyf is so hard mi parents dun by me da i-linr
i ned n nobudee nos wut it fels lyk 2 b me bcuz i cut miself plz sum1
tel me nut 2 kil miself.
...
Bahaha.
Every time I see diaries like that I tell people they don't know shit
about problems. Because it's so true.
This diary wins.
 
zsazsa1221 says:   20 June 2009   984542  
if we post our feelings let us u bastard! we need to get it out
somehow and if we teel anyone in out=r family well prolly get beaten
and have to cut again okay!!!! dont you fucking dare tell me or anyone
else not to post our feelings cause it bothers you we dont give a fuck
dont read it if you dont want to fucking bastard! to use diaries grab
attention is wrong but srsly dont read if you dont want to.
 
‹MalixDexide› says:   20 June 2009   426831  
And someone just proved another problem with people wanting to
suicide. If you tell the opposite on what they want to hear when they
aren't in that mood, they flame you.

But I do agree with you. There are just too many of these emotional
posts. At least if you want to take it out on something, put the diary
on private so only your friends can talk some sence into you. Don't
make it public affair because there are people who will try to make
your mood worse.
 
‹TheRulerofNightmares› says:   20 June 2009   894754  
zsazsa1221, it's sad you have so much wrong in your life. I
understand wanting to tell people how you feel. But you know, you
shouldn't act like your life is the worst. There's always someone else
who's life stinks more then yours. Tell your problems by all means,
but really. Don't go acting like if your life is the worst thing to
ever be. Life can never get so bad that it can't get worse.

And don't use swear words all the bloody time. That makes you look
unintelligent.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I do agree with this entry. I understand wanting help, but a lot of
people post problems up just to get pity and "B-but we love U!" stuff.
They don't really want help. People like that makes it harder to tell
who REALLY needs (and wants) help and who just wants a sappy pity
party.
 
‹jazmineeeee :D› says:   21 June 2009   429349  
I agree with this entry. I have posted my problems on here before,
but it was a ''Friends-only'' diary entry, and the person I asked help
from really helped me through it. I only wish some people didn't take
it too far. You're very inspirational. I know how I always read those
''suicide entries'' all the damn fucking time, and no matter how much
I want to be sympathetic, I know that the rational answer is that
they're just being attention whores. ^^;

You're great. Don't let snippy comments bring you down.
 
‹Maria   ;♥› says:   24 June 2009   851699  
Does it help if you post your feelings in poetry?
Because I'm not suicidal or anything, it's just I like poetry. ;-;
 
‹twinkletwinklelittlestar♥.› writes:   30 June 2009   915312  
- ‹TheeNightmareQueen›, zsazsa does not need swear words to make
her look unintelligent. 
And I agree with this entry, people like that annoy the friggin' hell
out of me. And they're setting a bad example. My little brother (who
is seven) goes on this site sometimes and he keeps going on about his
life being bad and he's going to kill himself even though he's got a
really good life. No wonder if all he sees are these stupid, idiotic
fucking diary entries.
 
‹{Viva}♥La♥{Vida}› says:   30 June 2009   579623  
Yeah, I see that kind of thing all the time. Someone even lied about
getting bullied for sympathy (that was on bebo, but apparently she did
it to 'make friends') !

I understand why people would put up those kind of entries for advice,
like:

'I'm getting bullied, it's getting really bad. Any advice?'

But if it's like this:

'Ugh, I'm gonna go jump off a cliff. I hate my life.'

I honestly don't get the point in that kind of thing. Sure, I posted
one like that, but that was ages ago. I learned my lesson. But I DID
make it the option that only my friends could view it. I didn't want
sympathy from randomers.

So on the whole, I agree with you.
 
‹{Viva}♥La♥{Vida}› says:   30 June 2009   781886  
But I do see why people would wanna get it off their chests, but when
I wanna get something off my chest, I right it down or whisper it to
myself.
 
‹{Viva}♥La♥{Vida}› says:   30 June 2009   748239  
Sorry, I'm not spamming you, I just wanted to add:

I hate it when people say 'Ugh, I was called fat today. I wanna kill
myself'.

There are people out there who get beaten up by their families and
abused by paedophiles, and i hate it when people say their lives are
the worst because someone called them 'fat'. People call me a geek all
the time and I say, 'I'm not a geek. I'm a nerd'. Then I walk off, and
that's the end of it.
 
‹☼TouchingDarkness☼› says:   4 July 2009   979649  
I agree with the dairy entrie and the comment made above proves a
good point
 
‹kitty _glomper!kyaa› says :   6 July 2009   586893  
i agree...
 

 
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