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do you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend i have & it was my best
friends x
Category: (general)
Tuesday, 12 December 2006
09:50:24 AM (GMT)
Hiyaz i'm lozzobaby,
                                my boyfriend was my bestfriends x well & i'm not
proud of it but i love him like she never & i've been going out with him 4 6 months
without any1 knowing so far but i had 2 tell my best friend first & she had a go at
i dont know wot 2 do should i dump him & risk my love of my life 
or should a lose her as a best friend & have the lve of my life 
i need some advice plz help me

saturntv says:   12 December 2006   433788  
Keep your guy. Your friend will be all right. Give her a week.
lozzobaby says:   12 December 2006   955382  
but but i've lost my friend now
sapphire3233 says:   12 December 2006   431872  
It's ok. Talk to your friend about. She'll understand. Tell her your
true feelings about him. Trust me! I went through this before.
Blinky says:   12 December 2006   299135  
i agree wit sapphire3233
lozzobaby says:   12 December 2006   641125  
ok i've tried that 2 but we got in an acuall fight
*wipes tears
lozzobaby says:   12 December 2006   522778  
i've tried all i can but i think the only thing that will work is 
2 dump him
punchedbuggy whispers:   12 December 2006   725163  
guess are NOT HER best friend if she acts this way.
Find you a real friend now
lozzobaby says:   12 December 2006   181746  
thx punch 
yr right
if she was my best friend she'd stand by me
but then i've known her 4 years
*cries again*
jeltonk says:   12 December 2006   977335  
yeah don't worry if she is your best friend she wouldn't act this way
sweetiepie323 says:   14 December 2006   997891  
well 1st of all y did they break up?2nd of all if they broke up for a
good reason then you shouldnt go wit him....3rd boys come and go but
you still have your've never heard of that saying???
hellokittygrl34 says:   14 December 2006   894195  
get i new boy friend. you know friends stay right nesxt to you even
though ur dating.
lozzobaby says:   17 December 2006   146269  
thats true
babby17 says:   17 December 2006   544181  
hi...ur friend, has been ur friend for longer than he has bin ur no matter what he is or how much you love him...she
should come first if shes ur best friend..
babby17 says:   17 December 2006   961493  
and no one can sugar coat srry
gurllover1 suggests:   25 December 2006   864984  
she is not your best friend! get a new friend
lozzobaby says:   26 December 2006   958313  
well acually i am back friends with my best friend & she told me wot
hes acually like & i said i'll make my own mistakes 
which i did i cought him with another grl
& the other grl is another 1 of my friends 
he goes along dnt he
hershey105 says:   30 December 2006   962182  
there was no need in dating that guy.
lozzobaby says:   4 January 2007   825173  
i was going out with him 4 6 months runnin
but i know 2 stick by my friend 
& this other guy who liked me asked me out & i said yes so i'm happy
Iesha210 says:   4 January 2007   525851  
I'm happy for you!!!
lozzobaby says:   5 January 2007   928929  
i'm happy 4 me 2
Niki345 says:   5 January 2007   288794  
keep the guy!!! if ur friend has a problem well she is not ur real
allie_luvin_alex says:   6 January 2007   712678  
u no wat i think  u keep ya mates 4 a long tyme and u dont keep bf s
4 long and besides u have more fun with your freinds and with boys u
do summat then they end up doin things and thnm gets out of hand thn u
end up dumpin them and u wont have any freinds to turn to u will be on
ya own and thn youu will regrett tht u eva went out with him and the
end will be u have no freinds no bfs or noone soo think carefully
about it ok luv allie xxxx
allie_luvin_alex says:   6 January 2007   181957  
im soo happy 4 ya gal luv allie xxx
Dayka says:   6 January 2007   396382  
let her go if shes not happy for you she isnt your friend. she should
still be happy for you even if it is her x boy friend
macc124 says:   6 January 2007   635795  
well these r all good ideas and if i were u i would just tell both of
them the truth and see what happends and if they really do love you
that much they will unerstand what you have been through
Jeni28 says:   7 January 2007   324488  
u shud make up coz friends r 4 ever nd someday he mite go off wit a
oda grl
prettystar123 says:   8 January 2007   217662  
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.Congrats,girl! Don't let your best friend ruin your
guggley says:   9 January 2007   511259  
Do u wanna throw away your happiness for some one elses I say keep ur
BF ur friend will get over it sooner or later
AThomason says:   15 January 2007   714767  
if she is yoour real friend she wouldn't care about that she would be
your friend through and through
fuzzyelmoo says:   17 January 2007   872846  
ya... wat she sed^^^^^^up thr   athomason...
princessgirl says:   18 January 2007   215777  
dump him friends are forever boy are whatever
sxysoph_10_2k6 says:   23 January 2007   365448  
ur freinds allways come first i wance fourt over a guy but now
neither of us like him lol
franklingurl says:   24 January 2007   827183  
she's not your friend if she is gonna do thast to you. that has
happened to me and i would rather lose the guy than my best friend.
lill cries:   24 January 2007   531348  
who is he dupe him frindship is much stronger
shellybeans5 suggests:   28 January 2007   978239  
dump him
guys come and go but friends are forever
i mean you may love him now but what about when hes all old, fat, and
you wont love him then -.-
but your friend should be understanding if she was a true friend she
so i say : 1.figure out if your friend is a true friend that you could
spend forever being friends 2.figure out if youd rather have a best
friend or a boyfriend that could easily end :/ your decision
christan says:   29 January 2007   867753  
man who wants a frend i am a good one ture??? please??????
nelly9 says:   1 February 2007   587268  
omd im your coz you didnt tell me god i know haw much you like me now
dont i
BugzBug825 shouts:   2 February 2007   532878  
All know is that you need to pick-If this boy have a good personality
then keep him and pretend to be mad at you friend so she can do things
to stay but you the whole way if this boy don't have a personality
then dump his slow ass if he don't got what you are looking for it
over.but your friend should be by your side no matter what and how bad
if  she is still mad at you your friendship is very very over
BugzBug825 says:   2 February 2007   775245  
oh srry i am happy for you forget what i said
kyle_guy says:   5 February 2007   637766  
just work it out between ur friend and ut man
they will wunderstand i have a girl and a best friend and they dont
like each other
KITTSLUVER says:   18 February 2007   275384  
well i think you should lose the guy no matter what he says don't get
back together and if you saw him with another girl that means you
can't trust him because he cheated on you just give the guy up your
friendships are way more important than being with a silly old
cheating boyfriend
alannababy says:   2 March 2007   748936  
i think you should stand by your BF, if she was a real friend she
would stand by you.........
mustlovedogs says:   3 March 2007   731358  
take a risk there other guys and not other best freind mabaey she
will be ok but if u dump him find a new guy and if you dont u will
have to find a new best freind  just like her if i wear you i would
lose the guy you and your freind have a stronger  realashinship and
you wont find another frieand just like her
mustlovedogs says:   3 March 2007   748188  
and u no i am right
lilnesha92 says:   3 March 2007   593584  
Well its up 2 u. If you want to be with him, stay with him. It
dosen't make sense to fight over a boy but she dumped him. That means
she has no feelins fo him. Don't risk yo luv for some hater.
‹AFIIQAA! Says heyy.› says:   3 March 2007   441894  
u know maybe you three (your bf, your friend, you) could get together
and then talk about everything and then sort it out and everythin you
shellybeans5 suggests:   4 March 2007   188992  
i say friends are forever but guys are only around for so long :/
but i guess it really depends on how deep your friendship is
if you feel like you could be friends forever then forget about that
but if not maybe you should talk to your friend about it
shortieshortie says:   5 March 2007   166563  
all u have to do is sit down wit ur boo first and tell him what is
going on. then u sit down wit ur bf and tell her how u fell then sit
down wit both of thm and let them talk about how they fell about the
sitiation. then who eva u agree wit thats who u keep in ya life. if u
become my friend i can give advice about other things 2
bbyJazzy suggests:   11 March 2007   986375  
mates come first even if their a bit meen sometimes. i think you
should choose your friend because you can talk to her about things.
what if things dont work out with you and this boy then you will loose
a friend and a boyfriend. i think it would be good 2 get to know you
and i can help you out more x x
smartblonde says:   14 March 2007   637767  
sapphire3233 is right talk it out with her. She'll understand if shes
a true friend.
lozzobaby says:   16 March 2007   929281  
well believe it oir not that guy now is a comlete & totally well i
would swear but im not
& he is doing drugs, smoking, mitching everything he is not worth it
candieflosss says:   16 March 2007   293434  
i went out wiv my m8s x but she got reely mad and wouldnt talk to me
4 a month
jackjack789 says:   29 March 2007   787594  
which is more important ????? this guy you met 6 months ago ? or your
friend who you have known (probably) Forever ??? think about it
58776555 says:   1 April 2007   917151  
Hard. Well Pretend you dump him and see him behind her back so ya.
It's mean but good
bullet_for_my_valentine says:   2 April 2007   971977  
so ur sayin that u were helpin him cheat on her???
luckyloo13_3 says:   14 April 2007   726447  
Ummmm first of all y the heck did u say yes 2 him! U never date your
best friends ex, i dunno wat 2 tell u , u pissed your friend off,
maybe shell get over it!!
Clauds says:   15 April 2007   982589  
if she don't wanna be ur friend then shes nt really a proper mate and
u should find some new ones or just talk to her about it and mabye she
will get a new date! It's a hard choice between a friend and a
boyfriend if ur in high school then u should keep ur boyfriend but if
ur in junior and ur boyfriend aint going to da same school and ur
friend is u should choose ur friend
‹shii-chan♥› says:   7 May 2007   314829  
uhh.. if she doesnt support your choices/opinions, etc. , then shes
not a real friend..
My bestie went out with my bestfriend-slash-crush..
I didnt care 
I acted as if everything was normal..
then my bestfriend(girl) dumped him.. hahaha
now his sis says he liked me... he onlee went out with my other
bestfriend to see if Im gonna get jealous..
mimzygirl7 says:   8 May 2007   725169  
Not counting your comments on your diary, this is your 50th comment!
If you want my advice yous should totally keep you gury because your
friend will get over it. Even though you should have never gone out
with him in the first place if it was your friends x.
dali says:   19 May 2007   279842  
find a new best friend friends come and go, but a boy who cres depply
about u  u may never find a guy like that.dump the friend
dusty07 says:   25 May 2007   266364  
miley123123 says:   18 June 2007   216838  
happygal990 says:   19 June 2007   356446  
Take the guy. Friends come by so much but love doesn't
mimi1493 says:   25 June 2007   494454  
well thats a hard one to give advice to u love the guy but its ur
best friends x.....................dump him and put ur friends first
my_user_name_rocks_even_more says:   29 June 2007   755752  
Lovesick says:   2 July 2007   447747  
ask your friend if she has really ever loved some1! if she has she
should understand!!
IcyCool says:   5 July 2007   729921  
i know its  a little late but if she stands in the way of true love
bitweeen u and ur boyfriend then she's not really ur friend
‹Wizardofgreek› says:   7 July 2007   257492  
first dump him no boy can destroy a girl's friendship
happygal990 says:   7 July 2007   328998  
Same here. My current boyfriend was my best friend we would do
everything together he was like a brother.
Beachbum77 says:   13 July 2007   935726  
Well if she doesn't love him why would you try to get him and get
you.. so does he really love you and is she what a real best friend
should be?!?! Think about that
‹KieraCharnay<3› says:   13 July 2007   219426  
stay by ur best friend and if she has a problem and he has a problem
with her dump them both or s[arete and find a new guy
pcrazy writes:   16 July 2007   239618  
i hope u will know what to do if you make a wrong decision next time
Gymzy53 shouts:   30 July 2007   287145  
I dont know where this rule about dont date your friends x thing came
from but your friend should be happy for you.
allaboutkiba says:   8 August 2007   789292  
keep the friend dump the guy
Piper says:   9 August 2007   133398  
Guys come and go
But great Friends Last Forever thats how i see it
Piper says:   9 August 2007   613685  
hey some one already wrote that  well i agree with miley123123
guys are'nt worht it plenty of fish in the sea
bunniNANGEL says:   14 August 2007   288783  
I dont have one im desperate for one
Beachbum77 says:   17 August 2007   964841  
Just give your best friend some time and try to talk to her more
about it.... trust me she should understand or she really isn't a best
friend at all because best friends are supposed to support..... Keep
your boyfriend..... it seems like you really really do love him!!!
pooh_baby says:   18 August 2007   497424  
dang idk, if it was me i do not know what i would do
homeypup says:   21 August 2007   516999  
keep your boyfriend but at the same time try 2 talk 2 your best
Sanyu says:   25 August 2007   888866  
Like I said on another entry before, anyone who gets upset over what
happens in their EX'S lovelife is their problem. If you knew she
wasn't over him it's yours, but if she was then she's just a drama
queen in my eyes who isn't over their ex boyfriend. If anything she
should be having a go at him for dumping her (or herself for dumping
him), or at her pillow because it was mutual. Is everything okay now
‹***!BICURIOUS PURPLE!***› shouts:   26 August 2007   381962  
keep ur man and try to talk to your friend. if she still dont
understand your feelings then she might not be ur true best friend.
LiiL_Boo2 says:   8 September 2007   599145  
tat was a stupid thing to do u man steeler
lilmamaupinthishouse says:   22 September 2007   226411  
If your friend want you to be happy she will be ight
sottomi_best suggests:   30 September 2007   628884  
wow u could make a story out of this
misty says:   8 October 2007   816129  
yea i agree she would stand by u if something like this
happened...although my friend has a bf and she likes my ex and i am
super mad...
Lovesick says:   11 October 2007   839152  
omg!! this diary has soo many comments!! wow, ok so. here i think u
should keep ur friend over that guy cuz u no wat? he dated ur friend ,
left her, dates u. eventually leaves , u dates another. hes an ongoing
player just get rid of him. i liked a boy too. only he wasnt my
friends ex. he was my friends bf. my friend knew that, he didnt she
stood by me, but i never took her bf away.. i couldnt lose her. U no
wat happend? 2months after they broke up, she found out he had 2 gfs
at once!! her and another 9th grader. this all happened when that
fucking guy was in 6th grade!! he ruined my friends life!!!! get rid
of the guy trust me!!
Lovesick says:   11 October 2007   246971  
excuse my FRENCH..sorry ( thats excuse my bad language.)
lovenitgirl24 says:   18 October 2007   468656  
my  friend  did  that  to  me  with  someone  i  liked  4  4  years 
and  i  hate  her   for  that  but  we  are  still  friends 
!!!!!????? but  i   will never  forgive her for  that
Lilrockin2 says:   20 October 2007   927469  
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CheerChick1012 says:   21 October 2007   871128  
if he is drinking and stuff u should so dump him that isnt right
Heart_Dazzle_31 says:   5 November 2007   142455  
if she waz ur real friend she would sopport u so she really is not a
good friend.
xxemixx says:   20 November 2007   497886  
i fink u should dump him but stay as realy close friends.

                   what do ya say?
ashleeredger1 says:   4 January 2008   124671  
keep your friend. you love each other too (in a non creepy way, like
sisters) and childhood oves hardly last forever and friends do.
Sanyu says:   11 February 2008   488853  
rofl. 2 years.
coolkupikagirl says:   13 February 2008   614197  
angie101012 says:   15 February 2008   711449  
Dump the dude  take the friend or you might  regret it when you are
older besides you should b a true friend trust me
sexybitch says:   16 February 2008   678746  
i think ur friend should under stand how someine {u} feel sheel
undere stand whenshee falls in luv to.
Katherine4 says:   20 February 2008   524732  
I would say that you should dump the boy. 
But it seems you already hae.
But I the other thing is if the boy you were going out with is your
friends ex. 
Then why does she care so much, unless she still has feelings for
But if she didn't say anything before that she didn't want you to go
out with him then it should be alright and she should just learn to
live with it.
Thats what happened to me.
I went out with this guy that I really liked.
But I broke up with him because he was cheating on me with another
friend of mine.
Now he's going out with my other friend who is being a bitch to me. 
Sorry to cuss on your page but shes just rude.
And a midget.
But point is, I really like the guy and broke up with him because of
purposeful reasons and now my other friend is going out with him.
Which makes me mad, but I learned to live with it and now I've moved
If she was a true friend she would attempt to move on, no matter how
much it hurts her.
Katherine4 says:   20 February 2008   776125  
She needs to remember that your her friend and that her friend is
more important than her ex.
After all, she did break up with him.
But the good thing is, she forgave you and now your friends again.

‹Shana May› says:   3 March 2008   926654  
 My boyfriend is my ex's best friend 
Isn't that ironic
TheMokey says:   10 March 2008   189174  
My friend uses the same rules, if you liike her ex then your not here
friend right?
and if your going out with her ex then she just hates you like a
spider in her hair right?
‹Supercalafragalisticespialadocious.› says:   21 April 2008   772928  
i think you should be wit your 1 true love because will she always be she always now where you so you see with
the guy so much more can happen not only in bed but i mean like in the
future you will possibly get married to the guy grow up have some kid
and do whtever
i know wht happened already happened and i'm late with the advice but
think about the future!!

my other advice is that you should dump the guy and get it over with.
isay this becuz best frineds are forever and true friends go to the
ends of the earth till they find the things you need they wont leave
you hangin unless there really not true frinds and most of the time
they ar4ent which brings me back to the first part of this cooment.

the truth is you reallly never know take this risk and do wht your
heart tells you go with the guy go with your friend you really never
know whts going to happen and thats the buety of life.

you probably wont read this and in the slight chance that you do read
this take the time to really think about wht i'm sayin here take it

i wish you the best of luck
Buh-Bye!! =)
monza7 says:   28 April 2008   125169  
if she's a real friend then she will understand that u love him!!!
‹<3 Her lips taste like a loaded gun</3› says:   8 October 2008   686384  
holy shit thats a lot of comments
ravenxy says:   10 October 2008   223775  
if she is your true friend she will understand, she dumped him
pinkypincessz says:   11 October 2008   293445  
omfg I cnt believe u even have 2 ask this... ur datin ur matez X???
hw cud yaa??
serves yaa rite, him cheatin on u...
lilpeachy1 shouts:   3 November 2008   686427  
u should keep u friend girl thats all i know i had a choice once that
i could go out with the fitest boy in school or keep my m8  and i
chose my m8 then 2 days later the girl that said yes 2 him got dumped
and she had no one 2 turn 2 and im so glad that wasnt me now me and my
m8 r bff!!! :D
‹♥Tyler-EpicFailEmo♥› says:   13 February 2009   614125  
If you have feelings for this guy the stay with him.
Only a true best friend would understand and if she cant handle it
then she isnt a real friend.
‹xXHeart_Bleeding_See_The_TearsxX› shouts:   25 February 2009   429217  
Thats like ur best friend saying u cant b friends with a certain
person and if u do then they wont b ur friend
‹xXHeart_Bleeding_See_The_TearsxX› says:   25 February 2009   322465  
BTW tell me how it goes
becca9 says:   22 April 2009   363362  
friends are forever boys are whatever
30Hexclamation3freak says:   6 May 2009   167824  
If you stay with your boyfriend there's going to be alot more people
who are 
mad at you then just her so your better of with a friend. Boyfriend
come and 
go but friends don't.
money_lisa says:   1 September 2009   747715  
if she dont understand then she dum find urself another friend
‹Cassidy916› says:   4 October 2009   784536  
dude dump the dude is it really worth losing ur friendship with ur
best friend
Kaida_bunny says:   31 January 2010   522371  
i say dump him love comes and goes but friendship is forever
‹Autumnbreeze(:› says:   14 April 2010   908101  
i agree with @522371..
becauze my bestes friend ever is juss mi friend now n were never the 
same anymore..
mi n that guy r juss kewl he has a new gf its like hes never single..
he moved on to a girl that has the same name as mi lol i was like
(he still likes mi) 
Kaida_bunny says:   14 April 2010   790124  
ElectrickChick says:   24 April 2010   846475  
dis is rlly popular!!!
‹EyezzzNeverLie♥♥♥› says :   9 February 2013   611162  
Best friends are there for you through thick and thin and if she
can't handle that you really care about him then thats her fault
because its gonna be her loss when she loses her best friend.... You
wouldnt be so dramatic if that happened to her and she was dating your
x then why should she be so mad?


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