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Help?Category: (general)
Tuesday, 2 October 2007
09:38:02 PM (GMT)
Ok, I know this guy named James, and well, he kind of is really keepy.  He's like
suisidail, a stocker, and really ugly.  Worst part is that he is in love with me. I
fell sorry for him because his sister gets all her mother's a tention and his father
has just died.  He did ask me to be his girlfriend, but I could never be his
girlfriend because he is only a friend, to me. But he does not truly get why I did
not want to be his girlfriend.  And I don't know what to do?  Do I still be his
friend or not.  He truly needs freinds but I don't know what to do? He has no
friends. If anyone reads this please help me out.

freestyle13 says:   2 October 2007   642669  
BE FRIENDS! I am a James and I wish i had friends.....
punk_girl_123 says:   5 October 2007   348937  
i think u should tell him that u would rather just be friends. tell
him that ur not ready to have a boyfriend yet.
Kiyomi_du_Eau says:   5 October 2007   526379  
Well, I did tell him that we could just be friends, but I don't think
he understands the definition of 'friends'.
peacechik suggests:   8 October 2007   525676  
nice story! the same thing happened to me! just tell him that you are
not ready but be his friend!
Kiyomi_du_Eau says:   8 October 2007   587955  
ok, that sounds good
Ms_Grammar suggests:   30 October 2007   724357  
Um Is It James Howard? write me to tell me if it is O.o
Kiyomi_du_Eau says:   30 October 2007   913578  
No it's not
dame_of_darkness says:   7 December 2007   691284  
wat u have to do is sit him down somewhere private, tell him tht u
understand hes in a time of need and that ull be there for him but
that ur just not ready to date yet and u just want to be friend, make
sure u repeat just friends twice so hell get it clearly and talk a
little slower than ussual, use a calm voice, dont be nervous or hell
be nervous and think u dont wanna be friends either.  it should go
like this

"Hey james can we talk"
"okay have a seat"
*has a seat*
"ok, well, i no ur in a time of need cause of ur loss and all, but
james wat if i became ur girlfriend and it didnt work out? ud be evn
more depressed, and im simply not ready. now before u say anything,
just hear me out.  ill be here for you and u can tell me anything, but
i just wanna be friends     just friends okay?  i mean dont get all
sad because this is not a time  to be sad except for.....anyway, just,
just still be my friend and ill be yours"
"u there buddy?"
"yoo-hoo! jaaaaaaaaaaaames"

im sorry
but yaa u should do that and if it doesnt work out.. then mail me!
Kiyomi_du_Eau says:   31 December 2007   762934  
cool, thanx!
StrangeLover says:   10 May 2008   998588  
tell him the truth, and REALLY emphasize that u just wanna be
pinkypincessz says :   25 November 2008   232168  
If He Needs Friends. Be His Friend

Simple... For God's Sake.


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