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Thursday, 21 June 2007
12:07:26 AM (GMT)
So many of us are lonely. Especially in Kupika.
I am talking about the lonely souls whom you call the

Such people will do cyber-sex or cyber-humping or whatever you call it...
to anyone who will respond to them...
and get satisfaction from knowing that someone pays attention to them.

You may call them perverts, sickos, whatever...
But deep inside, they are just lonely souls, who are desperately looking for your

They love it when someone screams, "Eeek....!!! Perverts..!!"

And when a lot of people beg them to stop, they are even happier.
It gives them a sense of "being cared for" (because you care about their existence).

It gives them the feeling that they exist in this virtual world...
... as someone that is being feared by little children.

So, what to do now?

If you just ignore those people...
They won't get any attention,
they will lose their reason for being [here],
and they might even leave Kupika.

The key is: Just Ignore Them

RaverAlchemist says:   21 June 2007   244942  
See, I said the ignoring thing a while back,
but nobody listened. *shrugs*
tree_frog_666 wonders:   21 June 2007   551887  
ur hot
‹HANNER› asks:   21 June 2007   888537  
Well even if people do "just ignore them" Isn't there always ONE
person who doesn't? Like just when you think everything is settled,
that one person gets asked to Cyber with the "villain" and the
immature "victom" will scream out in Fleeting thoughts "THAT PERSON IS
SOO GROSS!!" and then everything isn't settled..
So, my question is why should we just ignore them when we all know its
going to be back to the big argument it was?
‹HANNER› sings:   21 June 2007   771317  
Also, I'd say more then 50% of Kupika has cybered at one point, it is
not just those few people, its MANY MANY MANY people.
‹HANNER› wonders:   21 June 2007   267821  
And like hasn't almost EVERYONE has been ASKED to cyber?
hina says:   21 June 2007   521755  
kiwiface: (and everyone else

the real problem is how people react to these weirdos.
they continue to exist [on kupika] because they get the attention they

now you say, there will always be someone who screams, "THAT PERSON IS
this is true.
but, then again, you can control how you react. you can control your
action. you may choose to scream, complain, or run away. you can also
choose to ignore such people and still enjoy kupika. do not talk to
those weirdos. if they ask, don't answer. if they write something,
just ignore what they write. act as if they don't exist.

everyone desires attention.
if they get some attention by acting like a pervert, then they will
continue that way (in order to get the attention).
they are just wasting your time and energy.
don't let them have your attention.

now the question is...
how can we enjoy, if there are still such weirdos?
well, if you can truly ignore them, they will look like something very
trivial to you, something that is not worth your attention. you may
also think how pathetic they are.

btw, kiwiface, you stated:
"more then 50% of Kupika has cybered at one point"
wow, that's a strong statement...
meema says:   21 June 2007   627518  
yea we should ignore them! but the keep on showing here everyday!!
and there are too many!! 
but if we ignore them maybe one by one they will go! or some of them
lets just not talk to them at all !!!
nicky7127 says:   21 June 2007   863817  
I Agree Wiv Kiwi Face..x
sydto says:   21 June 2007   248745  
yea ur right i mean many people do it. And we are just wasting our
time giving the attention to them. those people are not gonna change
we cant enjoy the many pleasures of kupika unless we stop and just
ingnore them
Miki_the_Monkey says:   23 June 2007   446877  
I have a certain idea....

  I don't want to stress you out or anything, please don't take this
seriously because It's probably hard to run a whole site, but....

  What if you could make it so that people couldn't write bad words of
innapropriate(sp?) in their profile descriptions? Like, program the
words the words into the base so they can't write them. And not just
in the profile, but in diaries, Kupi pages, questions, and comments?

  Just a dumb suggestion... don't pay any attention... *slinks away*

  *slinks right back* Yeah, I totally agree. There are plenty of those
sickos/pervs on Kupika right now. It's best to just ignore them!!!
hina says:   23 June 2007   266169  
miki-monkey, thanks for your suggestion.
however, it is technically impossible to filter out such words.
because, we can censor APPLE, but how about APPPLLE*EE?
there are so many combinations.
Miki_the_Monkey says:   25 June 2007   539832  
Yeah, as soon as I sent the comment, I was like, "Wait, what about
combinations?" See??????? I'm sttuuuuuppppid...  Oh well!!! ^__^
Phantom says:   28 June 2007   376268  
dearest Kiwiface, makes such a statement so strong because she too has been in the wrong, for she too has cybered before and that's the reason on this she is torn
Bernie says:   29 June 2007   337564  
Ah, look at all the lonely people
Ah, look at all the lonely people

Eleanor rigby picks up the rice in the church where a wedding has
Lives in a dream
Waits at the window, wearing the face that she keeps in a jar by the
Who is it for?

All the lonely people
Where do they all come from ?
All the lonely people
Where do they all belong ?

Father mckenzie writing the words of a sermon that no one will hear
No one comes near.
Look at him working. darning his socks in the night when there's
nobody there
What does he care?

All the lonely people
Where do they all come from?
All the lonely people
Where do they all belong?

Eleanor rigby died in the church and was buried along with her name
Nobody came
Father mckenzie wiping the dirt from his hands as he walks from the
No one was saved

All the lonely people
Where do they all come from?
All the lonely people
Where do they all belong?
Bernie says:   29 June 2007   586628  
A bit random but I just had to post it.
neoeno says:   1 July 2007   328539  
I think the issue has been oversimplified a bit.

As is often the case, there are four kinds of people:

1. People who don't cyber, and who do unhealthily crave
2. People who don't cyber, and who don't unhealthily crave attention.
3. People who do cyber, and who do unhealthily crave attention.
4. People who do cyber, and who don't unhealthily crave

The only reason group 3 stand out so much is because people have
strong reactions to cybersex in general, which leads them to the
conclusion that groups 1 and 4 don't exist.

Cybersex is just text. It hurts no one. Sure, it might irritate people
a little, but -- as you said -- blacklisting is possible. Many people
who engage in such things do so discretely, and nearly all people will
ask first. I see no reason to penalise or condemn a perfectly benign

So, the problem? The problem is when people crave attention,
regardless of the cause. When people use all caps and are rude in the
FT box, or when people use all caps and solicit cybersex partners in
the FT box.

The solution, as is so in many cases, is to accept it will happen and
then try to adapt. Make explicit rules and procedures so that people
can find cybersex partners without bothering everyone else. Obviously
you might not want to make it explicitly cybersex orientated... but
there are generic ways around that. A method -- though this would
require a bit of work -- would be to create an 'interests' system, and
then allow people to find all online users with a certain interest
(such as cybersex). Then, and only then, will you have any success in
attempts to stop people soliciting partners in public areas (such as
the FT box).

Yeah.. this developed into a bit of an essay, I tend to do that ^_^
‹=+Kimzie+=› says:   7 July 2007   893822  
I agree with neoeno with all the many suggestions he just said on all
of these diary entries.It's only text, it's not REALLY happening in
real life, but it kinda ticks me off on this.Nowadays, little
children(including me) are losing the "happy innocent faces" ever
since cyber-sex started, now I see a bunch of kids my age go "WHAT THE
F***, YOU F***ING B****** STEPPED ON MY F***ING TOE!!!" and yell out
curses and gets in trouble in school and family(that happens to me) or
like, I see little kids my age(I'm 10 by the way) bring in Playboy
magazines from the local convenience store they went into before
school and looking at it.I always hate this.So I agree with just
ignoring it, but I think we should reduce the stuff like that just in
ChibiRini says:   15 July 2007   822523  
I don't want to sound rude and it isn't your fault hina, but there
are some people on kupika who are really wrong. And I just ignore them
like I do in real life.
Fluffygal says:   2 November 2007   795844  
Cool! I totally agree with you!...
But it's still disgusting. DX
ten_three says:   2 November 2007   661691  
right........... hahahahaha
hmm... well you see.. many different people in this world. they have
their own character.. and maybe their environment did that to them.
and wat can we do?? maybe that's their way to get attention but all of
us surely have tried to get attention right? i think its normal but
their way "perves" trying to get attention is wrong.. so yeah..
i suggest, all of us just ignore them and blacklist them. can't you
ban them, Hina? 
they are crazy people.. once they are ignored they wont do it
again..(kurang waras iki lho) hehehe only hina understand,, right
right? RIGHT..hahaha
lile2 says:   2 November 2007   231469  
that is realy good!
lile2 says:   2 November 2007   979571  
and deep
lucluc10 says:   2 November 2007   194334  
just blacklist them
bunniNANGEL says:   2 November 2007   447696  
Sanyu says:   3 November 2007   872719  
What annoys me is when people scream out HELP ME, SOMEBODY HELP ME in
the FT when.. it isn't really happening. It takes them time to type
that when they could just close the window and do something else,
whether on kupika or off until they see the person is bored and has
given up.

I also hate when people generalize all people who cyber as if they're
otaku or rapists or something ... is isn't always that bad :/ (see
neoeno's comment about groups)
saralyn247 says:   2 April 2008   498379  
@Bernie: I love that song. xD

Anyway, this is very true. 
Lyncheh says:   2 April 2008   314941  
Old diary is old.
Chidori_Chan says:   1 May 2008   411112  
I agree XD lol
‹♥EmiCupcake♥› says:   1 May 2008   283338  
anyone can be a pervert! u just have 2 b careful
History_Freakout says:   3 May 2008   281495  
err.....hina confuzed me
Chidori_Chan says:   4 May 2008   629341  
10 kc 	
Lyncheh says: 	2 April 2008  

Old diary is old.

Chidori_Chan says: 	3 days ago  

I agree XD lol

Really,I do.
kikiyo says:   26 May 2008   977665  
u rote a koool thing abt lonely pl dude 
i ts so     kol awesome can sayyyy
‹KirstyKILLJOY› says:   26 May 2008   725363  
I give it to them if they want it. But I'll make it sick.
"I lick your small willy, but I have to avoid the genital warts"
‹Skull_And_Crossbones› says:   26 May 2008   831273  
Finally someone who people listen to that agrees with ignoring
‹Skull_And_Crossbones› says:   26 May 2008   134266  
Talking about Hina btw. Lol.
Sanyu says:   26 May 2008   153159  
That event finally happened 11 months ago, though xD So it
isn't really finally. It's just.. there. Hina ♥
‹just a wish<3› says:   26 May 2008   997753  
lol wow that is true and all
Chidori_Chan says:   27 May 2008   685942  
10 kc 	
Lyncheh says: 	2 April 2008  

Old diary is old.

Chidori_Chan says: 	3 days ago  

I agree XD lol

Really,I do.

Lyncheh said "old diary is old."stop commenting already.
InVaDeRsOfThEeArThGiRl says:   28 May 2008   145452  
anyone want to cyber?

 jk...sorry, I just had to be an asshole for one brief moment...

no, I totally agree, though, I could still do without all of the
cybering requests...I mean, I'm sick of it, and people seriously need
to get lives...
‹Fairy.Wind.› says:   2 June 2008   314817  
hina thank you for deleting siberion_nx's profile.
‹KirstyKILLJOY› says:   2 June 2008   399971  
I love penos
hu wnna cxyber wif me xxx
X_Emo_cHaRi_X says:   4 June 2008   719623  
I agree with Hina.All of you who have been messaged by perverts
should never have talked to them and just blacklisted them without a

Hina,does this mean the more perverts are coming?
But I'll just do as you say,blacklist them then.
Glittery100 says:   4 June 2008   615574  
Chidori_Chan says:   5 June 2008   963761  
For Crying Out
‹♪♥Luvy; a singer♥♫› says:   9 July 2009   718953  
i always ignore those type of people!
sunset_meadow says:   9 July 2009   383797  
I think you are right about all that,they wat attention to make them
feel powerful
‹零Drewsun零› says :   9 July 2009   312677  
well, this brings up the fact dont give out persanal info, they could
be a malester...,dont take that chance


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