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Saturday, 1 March 2014
06:17:57 AM (GMT)
Is it okay to get jealous when you've only been dating somebody for almost 2 months?
I've been dating this guy, Ben, and he's absolutely amazing. I've told him just about
everything and i can't stop smiling whenever i'm around him. He used to be a cheater
and he even cheated on 2 of my friends but he said he was going to change, and he
did. I'm afraid that his ex girlfriend, Casey, is going to get in the way though. I
know he still loves her. is it normal to be jealous? she's really pretty and smart
and i just can't cmpete with her. I don't like it when he's around his other ex
girlfriends either... i don't know, ~Rant Over~

BlockParty says:   1 March 2014   473298  
Well one I do believe in once a cheat always a cheat
It's like being an alcoholic and recovering
Sure signs show you've changed
But you don't know when it'll rebound again

The fact that he's hanging with his exes is suspicious 
But there's also the trust factor in a relationship 
Believe me I know how you feel
I've been dating my guy for a year a few months 
and the hardest thing for me at first was trust 

If I were you I'd tell him how you're feeling 
Like I did with my guy
If you don't tell him he'll never know how you feel
But don't force him to stop talking to them
Just like limit I guess? 
Remember you don't own him 
But you guys are together 
And 1+1 is a relationship 
But 1+x where x>1 is not
Phantom says :   2 March 2014   805181  
Jealousy is about two things: caring and security. Clearly one has to
care about another to be jealous and thats ok for you to feel that
way. What takes things to the next level is the rational component and
an assessment of the security of the relationship. The bottom line is
whetther yourr bf is making you feel insecure or doing thins which
cause you to question the security of the relationship. If not just
try to keep the emotional part of it in check. But if you havelegit
reasons to worry then talk it over and communicate specifically about
what behaviors are making you insecure and if he is able to address
these then you wont get as jealous or have reason to.


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