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So, Listen to my little rant eh?Category: RAWGG rants.
Tuesday, 16 September 2008
02:32:52 PM (GMT)
As very few of you know,
Im legally a bastard.
Because my Father Figure wasnt there to sign my birth certificate.
I havnt seen him since I was, what. 7 or 8?
Cause he left my hometown for some crack whore up in Colorado.
As of Monday, September 15
My mom told me the horrible news.
Father Figure, is coming down here.
September 16.
Hes staying with my Grandma down in Hobart, ((My hometown mind you))
Untill Friday, September 19.
Im refuseing to see him,
Because he left when I was 3,
Doesnt pay child support,
Wont answer my Mothers calls,
Wont even reply to my little sisters emails,
And most certainly,
Doesnt truly love me.

Oroborus21 says:   16 September 2008   852244  

 personally, i think it would do you loads of good to sit across from
him and question him on each of those points that you hate about him.
do so as best as you can with keeping your emotions in check and talk
to him as adult-to-adult as you can.

no one would expect you to forgive him, or to suddenly get into some
relationship with him....but isn't it better to hear his answers to
some of those questions.

if you think you will be nervous or too emotional, write them all down
before hand..and stay on script.

listen to his answers though and dont let him give you superficial
responses. if he doesn't know why or have answers to some of your
questions at least you will know more about him..

trust me Bekah, it would do you a lot of good now and down the road to
have such a meeting like that.
JohnnyCALAMITY says:   16 September 2008   162732  
I agree with Oroborus.
You might NEED to have a confrontation with you father.
Try to figure out why he did all of the things that he did.
It could actually help alot.
‹medusaaaa🍪› says:   16 September 2008   149573  
I'll think about itt.
Oroborus21 says:   16 September 2008   446843  
just do it on your terms and control the setting...make sure you can
get out of there and vent if you have to....and come back when youre
cooler....answers or at least hearing him talk about his life might
help a bit....and then its not something you wont ever have
addressed...its a good opportunity i you move ahead in new
directions in your life...helps put away some of the past
‹medusaaaa🍪› says:   16 September 2008   598587  
I suppose.
youshookmeallnight says:   16 September 2008   128474  
hey bekah. I know how you feel. my Real father did this. i haven't
seen/heard from the dickhead since i was eight.
‹Ican'tbelivethisplacestillexists.› says :   17 September 2008   718189  
Poor Bekah D;

You can live with me 'til he leaves babee!

If I was your dad, I would reply to e-mails. . . but then again I
wouldn't leave you though. o_0

[btw, can I punch yer dad in the eye??]


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