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Saturday, 3 February 2007
06:30:30 AM (GMT)
I go to a drama group and one of my friends there is called Ryan.  I only met him in
September/October 2006 but we really hit it off and we get on really well.
However, a lot of the girls I know from school are his exes and before I met him, I
only ever heard about how horrible he is.  He's always been sweet to me, so I found
it very hard to believe that he could possibly be as bad as everyone said.
Then last night....he asked me out.  And I totally freaked because I don't really see
him that way, not seriously.  I had a little crush on him when we first met, but then
we got to be good friends and I got over it.
So instead of answering his text, I called my best friend and had a total breakdown
over the phone.  And she's decided that I'm not allowed to date him because he has a
serious 'reputation' (if y'know what I mean).  And now I don't know what to do
because I totally respect Kate's (my best friend's) opinion.  But I don't want to
hurt his feelings or anything.
But then again, if he is, as Kate says, only after one thing, then would it be
hurting his feelings to turn him down?
And does it make me a bad person that since he asked me out he's texted me twice
(about something different) but I can't bring myself to reply?

I'm really really really confused
Help me please someone!
Any advice greatly appreciated

Crazymeanna says:   3 February 2007   272778  
just suck it up and say no nd wtf if he has such a bad rep then i dnt
think u'd b hurtin his feelins
proud_veggie says:   3 February 2007   384342  
Thanks for ur advice
RaeGhost says:   3 February 2007   751893  
If he has a bad rep chances are you'll get hurt somehow. Take it from
a girl who has expericed that kind of thing.
supermnm says:   3 February 2007   313496  
Yeah, if he's got that bad of a rep, just turn him down. It's easy.
Just tell him you're not interested in him - not like that. Just
friends, y'know? ^^ I've been in the same position, and that worked
for me.
proud_veggie says:   4 February 2007   436216  
I want to thank everyone for your advice.
It really helps! =)
hina says:   4 February 2007   371978  
but you will never know until you try... be careful, though,
especially with your feelings. learn from others' experiences, but
nothing is as good as your own experience ;p
proud_veggie says:   4 February 2007   731697  
Thanks =)
xxxdannixxx suggests:   19 February 2007   441251  
i think if u like get a weird tummy ache when u see him say yes - 
but one hint of something bad and hes dumped
EragonArya says:   4 March 2007   836572  
if you only like him as a friend say you'll just be friends, but if
you like him a bit more say yes, but if he hints at something you
don't like then just walk away. if you have problems, dump him first,
then it won't feel so bad. Even though i've never had a boyfriend, i
am an expert at this.
proud_veggie says:   5 March 2007   937613  
Thanks everyone for your great advice! =D 
I love you all
smartblonde says :   15 March 2007   239269  
i dunno maybe give him a chance. juat becuz hes like that to other
girls doesn't mean that he'd be like that  to u. if it doesn't work
out then it doesn't work out. take a chance!


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