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Wednesday, 6 May 2009
02:38:56 PM (GMT)
Ok, so, back in February, I was just doing school stuff around the time my brother
get's back from school. When he knocks to come in, I unlock it and open it, and to my
surprise, he's carrying a water bottle with 3 Daffodils in it! I asked him why he had
flowers, and he said they were for me. From a friend of mine last year named Steven.
I freaked. I mean, this is the first time a boy has ever given me attention, let
alone getting flowers from one! My bro said that he said he really liked me. I was
still getting over the shock of getting flowers.
The thing is, I don't know if I like him back. I mean, I do - As a friend. We both
like Naruto and other mangas.

Then yesterday, I was talking to a friend of mine on MSN, and suddenly, guess who's
invited into the convo! Steven. I freak out. I start sweating, BADLY. We talk and
catch up, and after about a half hour, I have to get off. So I log off, then when I
wake up today, I find he sent me a message while the computer was off.

"hey samantha I was just wondering...does this make us uhh...u know...bf and gf? just
wondering! so next time when you get on reply to me k?(I wont be offended if you say
no)"

I don't know what to do! I don't believe kids my age should be getting Bf's/Gf's, and
I don't know if I want to be his GF, but then again, I don't want to hurt his
feelings, since we've known each other since, like, 5th grade. Any help? D:

Comments 
‹Joanna;FinallySetHerselfFree♥› says:   6 May 2009   141246  
Well, just tell him what you think.

Tell him your just not ready yet, and it... is against Christianity?
DX

Sorry, best plan I had XP
 
‹~[Athazagoraphobia]~› says:   6 May 2009   256648  
Tell him how you feel. tell him your not sure if you should. but you
really like him aswell but now like that. if he loves you he will
understand
 
‹Joanna;FinallySetHerselfFree♥› says:   6 May 2009   363568  
I agree with lonely_forever!
 
callie11 says:   6 May 2009   679219  
^ I agree with what they say. Tell him you really like him and all
that, but it's just against your morals (isn't that it?) about going
out at this age. Maybe you could ask if you guys can just hang or our
something?
 
Kirti says:   6 May 2009   378157  
Hm... Okay, here's some advice from your non-Christian, asexual
friend with two years dating experience and seemingly a hormon
ammunety.

If you "don't know" you if you like him then chances are you
don't. Your flatered by the attention, and your subconciounce is
reacting to love songs you've heard, your amygdala is saying that
doing what you shouldn't is cool (and you beleive that you shouldn't
date for religious reasons), meanwhile your primal instincts haven't
been clued into the 21st century and think that you'll live to be
thirty if your lucky and you should mate as soon as possible.

If you had known you liked him before the flowers my advice would be
very differnt. But it seems to me that if your confused then your
feelings aren't strong enough to justify the guilt you might feel for
having a boyfriend since your opposed kissing. And it'd probably hurt
his feelings to think that you didn't want to kiss him because you
don't know if you really like him enough to marry him.

... Did any of that make sense?
 
‹Joanna;FinallySetHerselfFree♥› says:   7 May 2009   378899  
Plenty of sense, Kirti XD
 
Kirti says:   9 May 2009   268174  
Well Role? What happened? Any updates? Or are you just avioding him
now?
 
‹< Dragon-tamer-1995 >› says:   9 May 2009   299712  
Er... Yeah, I've been sort of avoiding him. For now. D:
 
‹Joanna;FinallySetHerselfFree♥› says:   11 May 2009   289291  
I don't think you'll be able to do that for very long...
 
Black_Dragon says:   11 May 2009   954869  
i thanke your porbule not rede
 
Kirti says :   11 May 2009   681259  
If you wait then he's just going to stew. Letting him spend
days or weeks freaking out about what you're ganna say will make him
think he likes you more then he really does and it'll make it harder
if you feel like you want to turn him down.
 

 
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