Monday, 1 November 2010
11:37:40 AM (GMT)
This is bullshit!!
Again, I am just venting cause there is no point venting to people who
already know the situation.
Well, remember yesterday when I posted the diary entry about my best girl
friend going to a Halloween party with her boyfriend, the guy who was in
the hospital from major surgery? Yeah, I messaged her and asked her why
she didn't tell us that he was going to be there. Guess what her reply was?
"you knew that he was going because that was always the plan. and why would it matter
anyways. you couldn't go so telling you he was there would have been cruel, because i
knew you wanted to see him again." That was exactly what she sent me.
It was established earlier, months ago, that he wouldn't be able
to go because he was having surgery. So I sent a reply back. One that she
greatly deserved. And Steve is his name, by the way. And in the message when
it says "we could have gone", we were talking about the party at our friends house.
"We never knew he was going to be there cause of his surgery,
considering you told us to just leave him be until either you or him
told us he was better, and we could have gone, we decided not to because as
far as we knew Steve wasn't going to be there and it was raining so
couldn't go tick-or-treating. No offense, but you're being really rude, Steve is
our friend and we have the right to know how he's doing. If you and him
no longer want to be friends with us then just say it, don't need to make-up a lame
excuse. From now on, we want to hear from Steve how he's doing and what
he's doing, you seem to just be giving us the run-around and that's not what
friends do. You can go ahead and get mad about this, but do yourself a
favor and think about what it's like in our shoes and not just your own."
She's a Leo, born in August. The traditional traits for a Leo are: Generous
and warmhearted, creative and enthusiastic, broad-minded and expansive, faithful and
loving. That defines her exactly, but that's only the positive traits about Leo's.
The other traits for Leo's are: Pompous and patronizing, bossy and
interfering, dogmatic and intolerant. Which also fits her perfectly.
What does she expect from us?? I mean, it's always us going there to
see her and Steve. They never come here to visit us, except once or twice when
she was in town. Yeah, she was there at the hospital when I lost my son and had to
have a major surgery. But since then...forget it! I mean, don't I have the
right to be mad?? Don't I have the right to know how he is, if he's okay,
and to be able to see him?? There was one time when I was talking to him and
he gave us the number to the room he was in (when in the hospital) and told
us to call. But then she said not to call and when we told her that he
wanted to, she said that we still shouldn't call. "He needs rest and doesn't need
to be bothered."
WTF?? Why would he tell us to call if he didn't want us to?? That's just