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is it wrong to love(/date) a 22 year old when your 14?Category: (general)
Tuesday, 12 October 2010
02:02:50 AM (GMT)
oh hey there :] uhmm so, a friend of mine is 22 and we met about a month ago. we see eachother every saturday and we both really like eachother... but he has a pregnant girlfriend. and as i said we both really like eachother a lot.we were talking last saturday and he is also very protective of me and hes much nicer to me than my past boyfriends. he shows me new music, we get along, again he is protective of me, he is polite, and hes really funny. i know people are probably going to say its pedophilia but i dont think so, hes always liked people his age and im the first person younger than him that he has ever liked.i mean ive read over my states laws on this kind of thing but it only says its wrong if we have sex, and we aren't planning on it. we also have more in common than i do with boys my own age. we talk about invader zim, music, johnny the homocidal maniac, and other things like that. we have almost everything in common and he thinks im really cute. so i dont know what i should do D: we get along amazingly like we are the same person. he even offered to gauge my ears for me <3 so yeah :/ just confused. answers would be nice >.< thank you <3

‹Katie Michelle(: <3› says:   12 October 2010   558989  
Well it all depends on maturity, are you as mature or more mature
than his past girlfriends and think abt the responsibilltys he'll have
with an ex grifriend thts his childs mother. But if everything is in
place and understood then i see no problem bc i know a couple whos
been married for fourty something years and there 20 years apart. So
really age is just a number, age isnt what mttrs its maturity
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says:   12 October 2010   688583  
i am extremely mature, people often tell me im naturally motherly and
i take on every responsibility i come across.
thank you <3 :]
‹Novacaneღ› says:   12 October 2010   507618  
What's tha problem?
‹Naff the Raff› says:   12 October 2010   502330  
WELL NOOO if you love him bak...
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says:   12 October 2010   567861  
the problem is that i dont know what to do about this >.<
its hard to understand we both like eachother but he has a girlfriend
and a baby coming
yeah i guess your right <3 :/
Medication says:   12 October 2010   924946  
Well, in the eyes of the law, yes.
It would be considered statutory rape.

And, in my eyes, sadly yes.

Though, I'm not one to push my opinions on people.
Medication says:   12 October 2010   944456  
What I mean is, it's not wrong to love, at all, ever.

But it would be wrong to date. 
branches says:   12 October 2010   487484  
What about his pregnant girlfriend? I wouldn't want to get involved
with a guy that would leave a 20-somethin' with a fetus and then just
prance along to a fourteen year old. Doesn't sound horribly
responsible/reliable/anything good like that. :l
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says:   12 October 2010   823014  
ive checked out all mass laws and last year we had an assembly :/
they said its only illegal if there is some form of sex involved
but im not saying ill date him
he's staying with his girlfriend <3
^ and if he did leave her then he would make sure that things would
check out alright, but hes not going to. i just wanted to know if we
could even be with eachother at all DX but apparently not because the
only way i could see him is if he was still with his gf, but even if
we did date we couldnt see eachother because he cant drive

‹VampiresaRaven› says:   12 October 2010   297744  
Aaaaw. Poor u. 
Ur freaking out.
But he does have the mind of a 15 year old.
"I'll buy watever the fuck I want" XD
So that is good in most cases.
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says:   12 October 2010   315542  
yeah i am DX
but him having a young mind doesnt really help the situation 
"i'll buy whatever the fuck i want" XD I LOVE KYLE <3
yeah i guess so :/
‹VampiresaRaven› says:   12 October 2010   990419  
XD Hahahah U love ur Pedobear. XD
‹CaptainLlama~› says:   12 October 2010   622896  
You're a teenager.
You get confused.
You'll feel different within a week.
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says:   12 October 2010   441832  
yes  i love my pedobear ;_;
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says:   12 October 2010   930856  
ive felt this way for the past month D:
‹goodfornothing› says:   13 October 2010   442908  
i wouldn't be worried about the fact that he's 22 - i'd be
worried about the fact that soon he's going to be a father. and if
you're not ready to take on the role of a mother (you're only 14!)
then you're definitely not ready to be his girlfriend.
you say you've felt this way for a month. it can very likely be
teenage infatuation, in which case you'll move on soon. but if it's
honestly real, then wait until you're 18, when all's well and good
because you're both adults.
‹The Lark› says:   13 October 2010   968436  
Since he is currently in a relationship, you probably shouldn't think
of it very much.
My opinion on if it's wrong or not is still yet to be formed.
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says:   13 October 2010   622049  
yeah i guess so >.<
even the child thing isnt a problem for me.
i LOVE taking care of kids and i know its real <3
we dont stop thinking about eachother 
‹goodfornothing› says:   13 October 2010   454106  
i understand what it's like to feel that way, so really don't think
that i'm chastising you haha.
but i don't think you fully understand the situation. you, we, are
teenagers, and we're not meant to deal with that sort of thing yet.
a month is a short amount of time.
get back to me in a year and tell me if it's real. 
‹Captain.Incredible.Thor.Man.› says :   13 October 2010   420976  
got it ._.


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