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Wednesday, 20 February 2008
02:19:42 AM (GMT)
A paper wad flings across the room and hits you in the face. You feel the person
behind you slip a pencil your hood while tugging at your hair. You are experiencing
physical bullying.
Someone tells you that you aren't good-looking enough to amount to anything. They see
your grade or work and, whether or not it's good, tell you it's horrible. They are
making you feel inferior and mentally harassing you.
What is this person gaining from messing with you like that? Some bullies get the
ideas of being superior when compared to you. They thrive on your many looks in the
mirror and winces when someone taps you on the shoulder for a question. It makes them
feel better about themselves.
Some bullies are intentionally hurting you. These specific bullies are more commonly
known as acquaintances and friends. They tease you, not thinking you might be having
an inferiority complex at the moment. They joke around with you, not knowing they
might be the reason you have a mask over the real you, the the smiley face they
colored on your jacket is not okay.
There are four possible solutions for your bullying problems. Threes will help with
the brawlers who scar you on purpose. The other should make your friend quit.
Most people start out with just ignoring the bully, hoping they'll get bored seeing
no reaction. It's not the best answer, but it's a start. This solution is the best
resort for quiet loners.
For more social butterflies, this conclusion is the one. Just keep buddies around
when you walk from class to class or some free time pops up during class. Friends can
give confidence boosts when they're not messing around. Better yet, they'll always be
behind you a hundred percent and catch you if you fall.
If these solutions are a no-go, then there's always the option of telling an adult.
This wouldn't count as tattling. It's for the greater good and is reasonable. The
adult should be able to put an end to it.
Now it's down to the friends. There's only one answer to this problem: talk
it out. If they're really your friend, they should understand you don't
appreciate going around school with a giant blue "L" on your forehead. If they really
wish for your happiness, they'll cease and desist.
If none of these methods work, remember one thing: You are you. You cannot be anyone
else. Don't let someone tell you that you aren't good enough or let them beat you up
because they "feel like it". Don't let anyone get you down because they have to make
themselves seem high and mighty.

Comments 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   217666  
i think violence is the answer :]]]




but then again im insane lol
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   20 February 2008   272797  
Haha.
I bet alot of people would think that.
But then your bully could have strong back up o_o
 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   566871  
but i break bones :]]]



im a pretty face but im one tough chick lol
‹MusicDefinesLove› says:   20 February 2008   953274  
Pretty good advice. There isn't bullies at my school because I go to
a private Catholic school. ^^;;
 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   714424  
ima meany face :]]]]
‹MayaLOVESFAME› says:   20 February 2008   613217  
Great diary entry I love your tips!!
 
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   20 February 2008   473616  
@Anotherside:
I bet xD;;
I won't wanna run into you in a dark alley o_o;;

@Ashely: Hmmmm
My friend goes to a private Catholic school
And she's says the people there are meaner than the ones back at Weis
xD:; 
 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   789496  
he he



yeah im 110 pounds of mean X]

grrrrrr



just ask my friends
‹MusicDefinesLove› says:   20 February 2008   376796  
._.;;

WOW. Must be a weird school.
 
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   20 February 2008   169641  
@NJ:
Thanks x]
I work best at last minute panic :D


This is actually for an essay :3 
 
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   20 February 2008   626959  
@Anotherside:
Dang, your skinny xD;;

@Ashley:
I guess.
Because Weis is a public school in Galveston, a druggy place. 
 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   126628  
lmao



high matabilisim (sp?)




yeah ima eatchu lmao
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   20 February 2008   761494  
.O.
I got one of those too x]
That's why I'm only 108 >>;;
I eat like a pig
Or atleast with the fattening stuff I do :D
 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   128516  
lol but im prolly like two years older



im 15



lmao


how old r u?
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   20 February 2008   424526  
Yup.
two years older.
I'm 13 :D
 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   614892  
lmao



i  look old fer my age lmao'



pics on my pro
‹MusicDefinesLove› says:   20 February 2008   669838  
.O.

A DRUGGY PLACE?!
 
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   20 February 2008   413915  
@Cassie: Why is your age 12 on your thing?
And why are the pictures from photobucket under the title "Girl"
and the guy from a totally different account?

@Ashley:
Pretty much yeah.
I mean, Weis doesn't have todo with it though.
It's jsut in the ghettos ^^ 
 
thereisanothersideofme says:   20 February 2008   929929  
ha ha


funny story
i model thats why its under scene girls
and the other ones are from their accounts
‹P√Ętisserie› says:   20 February 2008   126788  
Wow, these are pretty good. Thanks. 
I have the friend or acquaintance problem.
But thanks.

@thereisanotersideofme: Wow, you pretty fun -high fives- 
 
‹HyperStrawberries!› says:   21 February 2008   418245  
oh my gosh! U sound like a adult! O_O
lol
I like ur tips Lora-chan!
 
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says:   21 February 2008   991265  
@Cassie:
But why is your age 12 on your account?
And then 13 on another part?
?_?

@Inteligente: No problem :3
I have the friend dealy too sometimes >>
Like the smiley face -_-;;

@Sweety: xD;;
Thanks :3
I try >B] 
 
‹MusicDefinesLove› says:   4 March 2008   884869  
I've been to the ghetto before. 
We were just driving around, we didn't get out. 

We can't take the risk of getting our car stolen. 
._.;;
 
‹Lora Patsy Poodle› says :   4 March 2008   659167  
We've driven around the ghetto plenty of times and everyone's real
nice :D
 

 
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