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Monday, 9 August 2010
09:49:18 PM (GMT)
This is why I think internet dating on Kupika is bad

i) The possibility of you and your lover meeting up in real life is quite
low.

ii) You don't even know that so called person that you call your lover. You
don't know every single detail about him/her, you don't know his/her family and you
don't know if he/she even loves you- It could all be a simple joke.

iii) You don't know if your lover is fake or real. Anyone can easily find a
hot girl/guy on Facebook/Myspace or something and claim it's them. Oh, and having
gazillions of pictures uploaded onto their picstream doesn't make them real either. 

iv) How do you know that you're lover isn't a 65 year old man/women who likes
looking a naked pictures of people. You have no proof of age of that person
you're dating online.

v)*MAJORITY of the boys on KUPIKA are actually girls
pretending to be guys, 'cause they have no life whatsoever. 

If you're not sure if your so called bf/gf is real, ask for a proof picture/video. If
they deny, 99% that they are fake :")
Last edited: 31 August 2010

Comments 
likeaskeletonkey says:   9 August 2010   915972  
*Majority.
Oh man, oh man, if only these diaries had a 'like' button. 
^3^
 
opinions says:   9 August 2010   335319  
@likeaskeletonkey 
Thanks for catching that mistake :")
I wish Hina would put a like button, that would be great. 
 
likeaskeletonkey says:   9 August 2010   356423  
@opinions 
You are most welcome!
Mm, I think it has been suggested, but declined. 
 
opinions says:   9 August 2010   294576  
@likeaskeletonkey 
Oh, I see. 
 
‹astute› says:   9 August 2010   370980  
@likeaskeletonkey 
Yes please highlight and put MAJORITY in bold print NOT ALL.
 
opinions says:   9 August 2010   894146  
@Distant 
Done. 
 
‹astute› says:   9 August 2010   362560  
@opinions 
Thanks c; 
 
‹♥ Doo ♥› says:   12 August 2010   514323  
I agree with this. :3
 
‹Ella ★› says:   12 August 2010   608215  
@opinions 
Just use the "hello" option! >o< 
 
Oroborus21 says:   13 August 2010   257338  
may i post a response? lol
 
Oroborus21 says:   13 August 2010   165104  
first i totally agree with your premise about how internet dating is
completely stupid, ive posted long essays about the subject
elsewhere....if anything mostly females get some emotional payoff from
them..for males i generaly dont understand it unless its the only way
to get something you want..for example from what others have told me
(not my experience), many girls wont "cyber" unles they are internet
bf-gf...stupid if you ask me but that seems to be how it is...and for
guys who are into that i guess that explains why they agree to it.

regarding your points ....they are all very valid....points and
definitely what both parties should consider...however...i only want
to point out that they are also easily overcome..those concerns.

1. meeting up is possible, the world is a small place and if the
couple are patient it can happen someday..just most relationships
especially teen ones dont last that long. there are millions of people
who have now met their significant other first online and then met
up..adn got together..even my ex-wife was first an internet penpal of
mine and we met first online. so it all depends on the circumstances.


further, in many cases such as very young people you dont want them to
actually meet htey have no business actually meeting their "bf" even
if they could...youdont want them dealing withthe phsyical aspects of
a relatonshp so an internet or emotional only connection is a fine way
for them to safely explore their developing sexuality and
interpersonal skills without the problems and dangers that a physical
relationship might pose.

points 2,3,4 are all basically the same valid concerns about a person
being a "fake" in one way or another but those concerns are all at
least reduced if not eliminated by camming, getting proof pics,
talking on the phone, getting REAL verifiable information about the
other person which is why remaining "anonymous" is bad for making
friendships and relationships and being real and honest and open are
good....

it is a very rare situation where you have like an accomplice say a
young boy that agrees to lure in a teen girl so that his dad can rape
her or something hideos like that...so in general if your
correspondent wants to remain anonymous or not provide the proof of
their genuineness fine...but then you cant realy get close to them or
fall in love with them if youare being mature about the whole
thing..cause youre falling for a fake.
 
Oroborus21 says :   13 August 2010   778559  
sorry about the typos...lol just typing fast and not really caring to
go back and correct them as they are inconsequential really...you get
the gist
 
 
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