Thursday, 22 July 2010
12:25:48 AM (GMT)
So I have THIS friend, and she is in a tough spot right now. I feel really bad for
(so let's just say her name is amber) amber. Amber's parents blame her for
everything, and when I say everything I mean EVERYTHING! Her dad will automatically
blame her without asking her mom. (yes she is an only child). And her mom does the
exact thing and when she tries to defend herself she gets grounded and called a liar
and if they do find out they were wrong they don't even apologize for blaming her
they say well sorry but you do have a reputation. Yeah she used to take food when she
was like 5 and so she lied they can't hold that against her like that. But they do,
and she is trapped with no where to run, should she deal with it and try to ignore
them and get past it and find another way to get rid of all her anger and hate for
them instead of bottling it up? Or is there another solution? And don't say family
guidence counceling will help I've already tried to convince her she's not up for it.
I just don't want Amber to end up being depressed and miserable for the rest of her
life because this will haunt her and she will never be able to forget about this.
Every moment she spends dwelling over it and being depressed will affect big time
when she gets older. Any help? Advice?