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AdviceCategory: (general)
Monday, 11 November 2013
08:36:35 PM (GMT)
Is there someone, a girl or a boy, that you are madly in love with? 
No matter how hard you try to move on you just cant? 
You want to live a happy life. but they made you fall and didnt catch you? 
I know what your going through. It happened to me too. You wanna know what I did to
get over it ? 
Well you will never completely move on. but you wont have as strong of feelings for
that person . Just. Dont talk to them
Dont look at them in school or look on their facebook profile. or whatever. just have
no contact with them. and you will slowly but surely move on. 
Keep dating till you find the one your Simply Meant to Be with. You will be happy.
 You will be in love. that person will be your significant other. you will soon
forget about the one you were madly in love with . not completely .
but you wont be so worried about them. you will still remember all the times you had

Phantom says:   13 November 2013   401311  
this was good advice. one comment: i dont believe there is ever one
person we are "meant" to be with. this idea, which i will call the
myth of "The One" is a strong one among various cultures, particularly
our western society and is the essence of the "romance."  The reality
is that there isn't a single "soul mate" out there but it is something
which we may come to feel only after the fact of meeting and falling
in love with and getting together with someone. In other words it is
an after label which we romantically affix to a certain person but the
reality is that there are perhaps many persons that in different
circumstances could have stood in that one's shoes and we would feel
the same way. I say all of that because if one comes to realize this
truth it becomes helpful to getting over a relationship that didn't
work out.....complementing your practical advice above.
‹Carapherneliaa› says :   13 November 2013   350722  
The only real way to cure pain is to add a little more, because
everything new distracts the old.


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