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Please read, this could save a lifeCategory: safety
Tuesday, 11 June 2013
10:04:16 AM (GMT)
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many
people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world.

FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were
interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other
hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with
long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s
clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or
doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store
parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly
move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only
takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it
because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar
objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to
use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.



1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an
elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time
is it, or make general small talk:
can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that
you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop
or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman
alone if she yelled or showed that she would 
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries
it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be
a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by
outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker
either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told
him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so
upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches.
Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly
unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You
might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the
thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start
causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them
back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The
instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your
surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior,
don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.



I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you
will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care
about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are
close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your
wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are
that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and
stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you
but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc.,
and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The
predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in
on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor,
and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most
serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women
are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger
side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk
back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS
ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to
be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The
predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most
likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped,
or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who
ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a
limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is
when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live
in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

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