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answers to: rude messages, and questionsCategory: (general)
Sunday, 12 August 2012
10:06:23 AM (GMT)
first of all, to those who have sent me messages regarding me being a young mother -
just don't bother. you're saying these rude things to me online, all of the things
you say i've already heard almost twice in person. it just doesn't get to me. most of
you saying stuff don't understand the actual responsibility and sacrifices that come
with having a child young, yes it may not be the best choice but what can i do now? i
have my beautiful son, who is happy and healthy, not to mention the biggest joy i've
ever been blessed with. i understand that it's a huge controversy in society, but i
can't help that one night changed my life forever. so the next time you feel the need
to send me a message calling me a slut, whore, or any other hurtful name, think again
because it doesn't bother me the slightest. 

for those of you who have asked me questions, i'm happy to answer them! 

how did it happen?: 
not that i owe an explanation to any of you, but it happened when my boyfriend of 2
years and i had sex, we were safe, i was on birth control and we used a condom to be
safe, but as most people know, not everything is 100% preventable, and my son is

did giving birth hurt?:
yes, of course it did! the pain level is different for everyone. seeing as i didn't
have enough time to have an epidural, it hurt so much more for me. 

do you regret getting pregnant?:
honestly, in a way.. yes. i don't regret having my son, just being so young. if he
would have came 8 years from then, it would've been perfect.

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