Tuesday, 4 November 2014
02:43:26 AM (GMT)
You know, I'm pretty sure this is how a lot of people work;
and it may be a weird concept to think about, but this is pretty much how it is;
People call each other ugly all the damn time.
I think I actually know the answer.
Every time you look at someone, you're thinking, "Am I attracted to this person?"
and often you are not. So then you think, "ew." Because you probably only find a
certain variety of appearances attractive.
People look at each other and think, "I would never date you. I have no desire to
fuck you. Therefore, you are disgusting."
And that is bullshit.
Because your sole purpose is not to please others with your appearance.
Your sole purpose is not to be objectified.
You are more than your appearance.
If someone calls you ugly, it isn't because the way you look is wrong.
It's because the way they are looking at you is wrong.