Friday, 15 January 2010
07:00:38 PM (GMT)
Of all the guys I know who have been dumped, it's always been for the same stupid
Boys have this stupid assumption that if a girl was their friend and then they
ask them out, that girl is no longer their friend.
They are your girlfriend. She is your romantic partner, and she loved you when
you started dating because of how you acted while you were friends.
Meeeeaaaning that if you fall so in love with her that you can't goof around, and
joke and laugh and talk, you're getting dumped. End of story.
Girls don't like to think we've lost something with love. We like to think
we've gained something. We don't plan to trade in our friendship and get love
instead. To us, dating a friend means our friendship with that person, plus
Be romantic. Hug her, kiss her. Bring her a flower on the first date. Be the first to
write "i luv u" in a text message. I don't care, whatever.
But if you obsess, and follow her around when you didn't before the date, and
agree with everything she says, you're doing something wrong.
I know, this isn't conventional wisdom. I know your big brother, or dad or whatever
has probably said "woman always like to be right".
And it's true- with guys we just meet on the streets and then date.
Stranger-->first date-->she's always right= love.
Friend--> love --> dating--> more love--> she's always right= Immidiate break up.
Please, boy, spread this message unto all boy kind. Girls, give it to your guy
Because I for one am sick of my friends dating than breaking up, so that my
newly dumped guy friend comes crying to me about what could have gone wrong.