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Monday, 13 July 2009
07:13:14 AM (GMT)
Kupika is a site for making friends. Penpals. Whatever you want to call it.
It's a place to post your thoughts and let others comment on what they think,
make/join clubs, and be whoever you want to be on here.

It's not a site to do cyber-sex, bully, or harass other users. Of course to those who

I think it'd be better to post something other than, "CYBER ME," in your profile.
After all, make friends, have fun, that's what Kupika is for. And children young as 8
go on here, so be mindful of others. 
It would freak someone out if you just go up to a random user and say, "HEY! Wanna
cyber?" Check their profiles first to see if there's any evidence that they cyber. If
you can't find any, then just try to make friends, and don't cyber with them.

To those who have been bothered about cybering or made uncomfortable:
If they make you uncomfortable, then just blacklist them. If you have been harassed,
bullied, blacklist. So simple! And if you have been asked questions such as,
"How old are you?" or "Which grade are you in?" tell them to check your profile. If
you put your age higher or lower as to protect your identity, make that known and
refuse to answer the question. If they truly want to be friends, they won't pressure
you into telling them your age, grade, etc.

Just remember not to put anything personal in your profile such as your adress,
current email adress, etc. There are internet-stalkers, and pedophiles. If you
suspect one of being a pedophile, ignore them. Don't give them more attention they
don't need, protect yourself by blacklisting, and don't provoke them by making
another account and coming on to them! For goodness sakes, you brought this upon
yourself, curiousity or not. Tell your friends through messages or whatever. 
You should know to take responsiblity for what happens, and how to protect yourself.
Don't continue your conversation with them, and know when to stop. I was bothered by
one user a few months ago. Our conversation started out normal with, "how are you?"s
and "i'm fine,"s. Then the conversation took a turn where the user started asking
some more personal questions. I stopped then, never replied back, and he took the
hint and stayed away from me. 

So I'm not trying to offend anyone, and if I do, I apologize about that. I know that
this entry will offend some of you or rub you the wrong way, so please tell me what
you think.
Last edited: 22 November 2009

Kyun_yo says:   13 July 2009   991518  
You are so true. :/ Lots of people bug me about personal matters and
I just ignore it completely. 

I'm sure the issue of gender and age wouldn't and shouldn't
matter if one wants to be friends. Instead the people here on Kupika
take this as some kind of dating place to flirt or find partners. 

I, for one, hate how people would try to 'flirt' with me, that's what
I'm suspecting anyways.

There are children here and I'm surprised how much corruption lurks
around the corner. :/ I'm sure that most of the pedophiles, fake or
not, target those young people and talk about things that the young
shouldn't be knowing about. And then they end up being paranoid and
scared because of some person on the internet who doesn't know how to
keep to himself/herself. 

The three letters "asl" has never existed in my mental dictionary
before until I cam here. :/ It really doesn't help that much aside
from the fact give strangers a choice to see if they're 'harrassable'
or not. 

Meh, sorry for the rant. :/ But I agree with you. Some people really
need to lay off of the bashing and the publicity of people that are
obviously sick-minded.
cutie779 says:   13 July 2009   962733  
nice 1
dis goes to all those idiots who unly think abt sex
‹Syndromic_Wonderland› says:   13 July 2009   749447  
I don't know if I want to know, but what exactly is "asl"?
‹Avada Kedavra♥› says:   13 July 2009   728658  
What is asl?

ASL simply means your age/sex/location :P
Yaoi_Bear says:   16 July 2009   635592  
I agree...
-had just got asked 10 seconds ago-
‹Syndromic_Wonderland› says:   16 July 2009   489358  
Wow, that must have been freaky....o.O
‹??????› says:   16 July 2009   489168  
Kupika is for friendship, sharing relevant ideas, drawing and much
Cybering, on the other hand, got out of hand. 
You both pointed out everything, there's little to say.
Cybering is also something else, but in this explicit connotation, it
is more known as cyber sex. If someone ever asks if you “want to
cyber” tell them no. If they continue to harass you, blacklist
him/her. It’s that simple. Just as has been said above. Not all
those who cyber are highly disgusting with loose and perverted minds.
 I don’t want to offend anyone typing this in this method and
assessment. I have a friend, who I shall keep anonymous, and does
this. But eh.She’s a great friend who keeps up a amusing and
commonsensical conversations. I told her I didn’t want to cyber when
she asked and she never did or kept motivating me to it. We are still
friends. I comprehend and in fact agree with what you say. 
To put all of this minimally in a blasé way to not go through all the
trouble, is from where I heard:
Online dating isn’t even real.
Understandable enough.
‹LadyOfTheDarknessKatty› says:   16 July 2009   195524  
i think that your r right but people always harassme
‹??????› says:   17 July 2009   774613  

That's awful.
You could blacklist him/her.Blacklisting's here for a reason. So is
thumbs down; costing a KupiPoint. 

Or just simply plan to ignore them.
Kyun_yo says:   17 July 2009   761148  
...I got blacklisted for being reasonable and for defending my own
opinions. :'D

This shows how people abuse the blacklist without any reason. 

Then again, I like having been blacklisted. =D It shows that I'm a
very bad person. -shot- 


Okay getting to the point. I posted this on Kupika.net, but I shalt
relay it here again. =D (And I'm getting fairly annoying aren't I,
Syndromic? :D)

"There's no end to this madness. :/

There will be pedos and pervs and cyber-ers everywhere you go.
Honestly you can't rid of them at all. What good will it do if you
'expose' people? They'd go and pose as a much younger age and target
people like that.

Kids that young are stupid. Regardless you like that or not, they just
are. :/ Instead of trying to protect them by exposing pedos, why not
teach them to not answer personal questions that people ask?

I've seen some incidents where some kids get freaked out about a pedo
after answering some of the guy's question, and obviously his
questions were really personal and helped him determine who to target.
If he sounds suspicious, don't answer at all. :/

-.- (And sorry for the mini rant but really, people don't have any
common sense.)"

:D /is a stupid spammer. ^^ -shot-
‹Syndromic_Wonderland› says :   17 July 2009   192225  
I agree with all the things said on here.
Yanely_a_la_mode and Kyun_yo gives a good point. ^^


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