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Saturday, 21 May 2011
05:47:33 PM (GMT)
there's a transgender boy - i feel comfortable calling him this because he still refers to himself as male - in our city who gives a lot of the trans* community a really bad name. i understand he's become something of a celebrity - in that everybody knows his name, knows who he is etc. etc. a lot of this is because of the way he dresses and various exploits, as well as the fact that he's probably the only trans* person people my age know, and after all people can be cruel. apparently he's started hormones, i can't quite confirm this or not, but that's not the point. one of the things that irks me is the fact that his gender's still set as male - if i've said this once, i've said it a thousand times. whilst 'sex' may indicate biological, the gender is inside of your head and how you identify. at least, that's how i see it. if you want to be seen as female, then plastering 'MALE' across everything is not the right way to go about it. in my experience, too, if someone's a mtf and they are sexually attracted to males, they label themselves as straight - this could be personal choice, it just seems strange to me. that's not the point. the point is that he has an overinflated opinion of himself and half of the time seems to say what he does for attention. this upsets me mainly because i know people who've said that they don't like transgendered people because they think they'll all be like him. the lgbtq community is my community, specifically the T and Q. i hate the idea that all mtf's are like him. HATE HATE HATE. and i don't think he realizes exactly how the way he acts affects other people, because we're not a particularly prevalent community in my city. i'd like to talk to him and explain this, but if i do he'll probably just call me out on 'hating on him' because i'm not even fully out as trans* to anyone but the internet and my parents. asdfghjkl this has properly pissed me off today, which is ridiculous because i've known this for MONTHS and it's only just gotten to me.
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