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Sunday, 7 January 2007
03:16:26 PM (GMT)
'Sfar as I can tell, there are two camps in this important issue:

Cybersex is wrong.
Cybersex is great and I want to have it with you.

The second one is a bit annoying, and a bit inappropriate, and etc. But the first
one, I just don't understand. What's wrong with it? I can understand that if people
are doing it in the open, then it's inappropriate, but to label the whole thing as
wrong.. hmm.

So why is it wrong? It doesn't seem to be hurting anyone, some people have been
saying that the cyberers should go get a real whore. That's just a stupid thing to
believe (if you do, that is, and you're not just joking). Cybersex doesn't carry the
risk of STDs, and it also allows people to keep their virginity (though this should
be left up to them too) whilst still expressing their sexuality.

As long as it's private, what's wrong with people expressing their sexuality in
whichever way they like?

Oh, and if you're about to comment "It's disgusting" or suchlike, don't bother. What
gives you the right to define what's right and wrong based on your disgust?

RaverAlchemist says:   7 January 2007   242936  
Well, you got me. I don't wish to lie about my beliefs, because It
really only hurts MY reputation, so.. I do believe it's disgusting,
mostly because nobody really knows who they're cybering with. If you
know that person in reality, then fine! Go and cyber like crazy! But,
really, it's not safe online. For all the person cybering knows, they
could be cybering with a child predator, or something of the sorts.
Anyways, well, I'm starting a cult named after you >_> I'm actually
having a hard time describing why I find you so amazing. Maybe it's
the way you word things, or your views. I don't really know.
Sally says:   7 January 2007   681119  
u no what is just like diskusting!!!!!!!
hina says:   7 January 2007   395921  
Well said.
How interesting, we can see this social phenomenon in Kupika... Now
how to deal with those two camps...?
neoeno says:   7 January 2007   794468  
@RaverAlchemist: What if it doesn't bother the participants though?
Maybe they enjoy the anonymity. It might be a child predator, yes, but
as long as they don't give out their information no one's getting
hurt. You don't know who anyone is online for sure, and in fact if
they're just cybering then they are less likely to be exchanging
details, kind of ruins the mood really. Cybersex isn't limited to
minors anyway.

You also said it wasn't safe, I disagree. Cybersex is perfectly safe,
cybersex is safer than real sex! There's no risk of rape, or STDs, or
any of that stuff. It's a great way of exploring your sexuality too.
If people exchange details, then it might become less safe, but that's
a whole different thing.

As for why you find me so amazing, I have subliminal messages embedded
(LOVE ME) in my text.

So yea, I'll send this to you via message later if you don't reply... 
CDMJ02 shouts:   7 January 2007   635661  
neoeno says:   7 January 2007   363411  
@hina: Let it play out, I guess. These things tend to fall out of
fashion in my experience. 
RaverAlchemist says:   7 January 2007   231336  
Oh, by the by, I figured Out, I think I did, anyways, how you did
your Oekaki picture with the drum.. I need to test my hypothesis XP
HMM13 says:   7 January 2007   128391  
neoeno says:   8 January 2007   921733  
@RaverAlchemist: I basically worked out how the drawing program
submitted it's image to the site, and wrote a program to emulate that
process. I pretended to be the drawing program, but sent my own custom
image instead. 
MojoHuma says:   8 January 2007   425891  
Cyber sex is wrong to the first camp because of it's name. It's got
the word sex in it.

Now if it were called cyber humping, or something completely different
like cybernus humpinus, maybe it would be a different case altogether.
RaverAlchemist says:   8 January 2007   427327  
God, my idea was so different from that, I'm afraid you'll laugh at
me if I tell you o_o... Well, shouldn't say God cause I'm partially
Atheist, so... Not... God.. Okay, y'know what? My idea was just
REALLYYYYY different. T_T
ant355011996 says:   8 January 2007   616851  
What is cybersex in the first place
RaverAlchemist says:   8 January 2007   439878  
... Um... Couldn't you figure it out from the posts and NeoEno's
stand_in_the_rain says:   9 January 2007   546844  
um i think it's wrong. i'm christian and i really focus on my
relationship with god and what he wants me to do. when i went to
church last sunday the pastor was saying how wrong it is to have sex
in your teen years. even anything similar to it! making out is under
the category and so is cybersex. so if you want to do the right thing
and not waste your life then  go to church and read the bible! the
bible says: 'the glamour of sex leads to sin'. check it out. if you
don't care about your life go ahead. but god wants you to do the right
neoeno says:   10 January 2007   357145  
The bible also says a lot of other things.

I also resent you saying that the choices are either that I don't care
about my life, or that I go to god.
‹x_uRmInDbAbi_tm› says:   10 January 2007   129915  
Stand in the rain dont be trying to push YOUR stupid ass religion on
to others
‹♪«·Nightmare ·†· Boulevard·»♪› says:   12 January 2007   446839  
cybersex is really bad and nasty !! u could be in conversation with a
friend u met over the internet that's the same age but that person is
really a raping hacker!!!
MojoHuma says:   13 January 2007   419587  
LMAO. A raping hacker. I love that. 

And it doesn't matter. It's fiction! 
It's like saying having sex education is wrong.
People just need to get over it.
neoeno says:   13 January 2007   732175  
picklestar06 says:   14 January 2007   831545  
not high five sex is something to be done when ur married and to the
person thats special to u and who ur going to be spending the rest of
ur life with not with freakish ppl that uv never met
quackquack says:   14 January 2007   377419  
i totally agree w/ neoeno andMojoHuma. kids need to know about sex
sometime don't they?? picklestar06 don't be such a Debbie Downer.
Cheerleader says:   17 January 2007   328997  
....................................Have nothing to
ChanelxGirl says:   26 January 2007   324268  
Woah. Some people are so ignorant. Now, I could write an essay on how
historically wrong the bible is, and all that, but I say good for you
if you believe in it! Having such a strong religion is good for you.
The whole cybersex thing...I don't see the problem. Its safer than
real sex. And let me just say, kudos to anyone brave enough to do it.
I'm a littly shy myself. Random cybersex...Eh, I just don't get it.
But having an intimate conversation with someone you know and are
attracted to? Thats just fantastic.
Ming says:   3 February 2007   676996  
The thing is, that you shouldn't be concentrating on cyberfriends and
cybersex and cyberwhatever. People you'll never meet in real life. You
should concentrate on right now, what's there, whats real. You can't
see anybodies body language over the internet, and you can't sense
theyre body smell, which is the most important thing to fall in love.
neoeno says:   3 February 2007   383982  
Ming: There's an awful lot of 'you should's in there. Who are you to
tell people what they should and shouldn't be doing? I know your
comment was in good spirit, but it gets on my nerves when people
command others like that and no one's getting hurt. By your logic, no
one should read books, think about abstract concepts, send letters,
look at pictures. In fact that whole view embodies the hedonistic
sans-superego mindset. You view a partner's most important aspect to
be scent? Sorry, but that's kind of foolish. Scent is nice yes, but
it's hardly the most important thing.

Apologies for the harsh words, but that whole in-the-moment ideal
really gets on my nerves.
extracool says:   19 February 2007   628845  
i believe that cyber sex is wrong, but i will respect your beliefs
and say kindly to all who insult your ways to be patient, and if that
doesnt work just back off.
skatingpixi says:   21 February 2007   756434  
I will not ever do cybersex PERSONALLY but... I dont nessacarily
think it is wrong. I am kinda a christian so it goes against my not so
many beliefs. Anyway its up to you what oyu do. It doesnt matter if it
is wrong or not. If you want to do it you probably will. If you dont
want to than DONT. Anyway I do not understand all these "its wrong and
you shouldnt do it!" I mean ts their life let them do it if they want,
they are still virgins, nobody will know, your just forcing your
opinion on other ppl and I know how that feels, so DONT DO THAT!! it
makes other people feel uncomfertable bc they dont want your stupid
opinion!! okay I am done now...
neoeno says:   21 February 2007   211278  
Mmmm nihilism.

I disagree in a way. It does matter whether something is wrong or not,
and influencing others in a non-bastardized way is okay. Cybersex is
pretty much a non-issue in morality though.
skatingpixi says:   21 February 2007   971819  
I suppose your right on that matter but... some ppl just dont like
having other ppl try to force say.. christianity upon them.. or some
other idea they just dont want to believe in. Or maybe force a thought
that they dont care to believe in or something like that.. I would be
one of those ppl!
BrieAnna sings:   21 February 2007   474942  
whatever. u kno i belong in camp I DON't care.

neoeno ru going to shout i don't ???

lol let them do what they want if you don't want to you don't have
too. my goodness. :P
Elyai says:   17 June 2007   313424  
Neo, You put forward a good argument. I like the way you look at the
subject. Your not biased or one sided. Well done for starting a fair
Luna987 says:   17 June 2007   724482  
I htink you make a very good point. Kids are going to have be
introduced to sex and things of that nature before they do something
stupid. And cybersex isn't going to hurt anyone. They aren't actually
doing anything. They are pretty much just talking about the things
they do. People just need to get over the fact that other people do
it. And some people get disgusted with the fact that the same gender
of people do it. That is their choice to do that and it isn't like
they are asking that person to change the way they think about other
people. I think you make a very good debate on that.
Luna987 says:   17 June 2007   118118  
Sorry. I meant to type think. Not htink.
‹EvaHEROIN› says:   18 June 2007   553822  

I think it has pros and cons...

If in secret, or just in messages/letters, I have absolutely nothing
against them. It only bothers me when they do it blaintently in the

But I don't think you could ever stop it on kupika...Too many people
seem to enjoy it...I think maybe just ignore them...
greenbeetle1201 says:   10 July 2007   775244  
i agree with kubix123, i mean personally, i dont agree with it, but
Im not going to try and make anyone have my same opinions about
something, just like people who have cybersex also shouldnt try and
change my opinion to theirs
bubbles_girl_13 says:   10 July 2007   677524  
I think cyber sex is okay. 
But it should be done in private. When it's done openly and with a
flagrent disregaurd for others rights, it's innapropriate. I would
personally never cyber. But it's not morally wrong or anything. If
people want to do it, go ahead.

Neono, your blog is incredibly well written. I love you style. Please
write more.
neoeno says :   10 July 2007   767769  
Thank you! I shall attempt to do so...

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